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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i have been having protected sex with my boyfriend for the last few months we have done it quite a few times. i'm not on the pill but he still came inside of me each time. normally when i have a period i am on for 4days and it is heavy (not really heavy but not light)and i have missed this month i am NEVER late. i think i am pregnant what should i do? HELP ME!!!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm... so you were obviously trying to get pregnant. having unprotected sex lots of times is bound to result in pregnancy, so id say you are probably pregnant. youd better decide what you want to do quickly. i dont know how old you are, but looking after a baby is really hard and a massive responsibility.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow bright:
    <STRONG>erm... so you were obviously trying to get pregnant. having unprotected sex lots of times is bound to result in pregnancy</STRONG>

    What ARE you on about? She said she had protected sex. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Anyway, is it too late to get the morning after pill? If it is then a quick trip to the chemist for a test will set your mind at rest (get a friend to give you some support)
    And in future try to post this stuff in the right forum.

    Good luck

    [Edited to say actually I'm WELL confused and I'm not sure whether she did actually mean she's been having protected or unprotected sex. Bloody newbies <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">]

    [ 22-04-2002: Message edited by: Gems ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't frown eb, it's not attractive <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Mods, should this not be moved to the sex board? And Cassie, what did you actually mean? I'm with Gems here - well confused! Just do a pregnancy test and go from there. Good luck!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey youre right, she does say she had protected sex - but then says she wasnt on the pill and he came inside her??????????? doesnt sound very protected to me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Moving to the sex forum...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx guys - i needed that advice <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In the other message on this board you are saying youv had unprotected sex but your on the pill!! In this you say your not on the pill! Make your mind up!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what exaclt do you mean then protected or unprotected??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, You are not on the pill, how was it protected? were you using a condom?? if you were then you have nothing to worry about!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this one is mine. the other one is my mate but she doesnt know i put her problem on here.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by cassie:
    <STRONG>this one is mine. the other one is my mate but she doesnt know i put her problem on here.</STRONG>

    Wot so your both stupid?
    Don't you have sex education where ever you 2 come from??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You still havent said what you mean did u use either
    a) the pill
    b) a condom
    c) injection
    d) cap
    e) any other fomr of contraception?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by cassie:
    <STRONG>this one is mine. the other one is my mate but she doesnt know i put her problem on here.</STRONG>

    What language is this in? I'm so very confused. Get it together girl <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can you say what your problem is clearly please.
    You could have phrased it: I usually have protected sex with my boyfriend using...and whatever contraceptive you use...however, recently we did not and I am now worried as to whether I am pregnant or not. The reason for this being that I have missed my period or I am late by however many days.

    Unless of course, your problem is completely different to that. But you could post it providing the information clearly so that you at least get a better response.

    I just read that over and I come off as sounding very moody, don't I? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I ain't. It just annoys me when people don't make themselves clear. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    So have you sorted this problem yet or do you still need advice?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am so confused <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> can people make themselves clear please it is so weird i am so confused can somebody clear this up please?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you need to find out for sure wetha you are pregnant, if you are its really stupid as you are so young, my sister is 16 and she has a 3 yr old daughter, she finds it hard to cope, most teenage mums do, u need 2 sort ur life out if you are ur in 4 a tough rest of your life (soz 2b harsh)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have posted twice so let me explain

    the post bout unprotected sex is me and thats sorted out now. i went to the fanily planning clinic and got a test (it came up negative).

    the post bout protected sex is my friend and she still hasnt sorted it out yet cos shes scared. me and another friend r trying 2 convince her to go to a family planning clinic 2 get it sorted but i need so words of wisdom! any ideas? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heres an idea for you. If you and you're mate are so trying to help her why don't you just club together and buy her a pregnancy kit............... some even come in packs of two is that for the prats who need to buy in bulk <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    Seriously, if you present her with it she's going to have to use it.Do it in the school toilets if you must!!!
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