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how much u care about getting yours!
So to answer my question as to whether it is unreasonable for me to stop doing it to her, your answer is yes it is?
If a girl came on here saying something along the lines of "me and my boyfriend live together, I have to buy all the shopping, cook all the meals and clean the house and he does nothing in return" then no way all you people would be saying that if you love him it should be worth it.
if you love her, you will want her to be pleased, regardless of if you get yours.
Sorry but this is bullshit cos it could be said exactly the other way round "If she loves him, she will want him to be pleased" and he's clearly not pleased so does this mean she doesn't love him??
I hate these double standards off lasses, really does my nut in.
I wonder what this thread would be like if we were talking about something other than sex. If a girl came on here saying something along the lines of "me and my boyfriend live together, I have to buy all the shopping, cook all the meals and clean the house and he does nothing in return" then no way all you people would be saying that if you love him it should be worth it.
Man Of Kent wrote:
Since when has "fair" been an issue.
If you are expecting something in return then you have the relationship all wrong. You give because it pleases her, not because it means you get a blow job.
If she doesn't want to blow you then tough. Don't pressure her into doing something because she'll only resent you for it.
so you're saying that you know me do you? you're saying that if i did it all for my boyfriend and he gave me nothing i wouldnt love him?! you dont know anything about me, my relationship is about love, not sex!
and dont tell me im using double standards, im not, you're the one who brought it up!
I had the exact same problem with a selfish bastard I once went out with. So I simply told him I wasn't going down on him again till he gave me head first.
Needless to say, I never had to suck him off again. :rolleyes:
That sounds quite different. Here the girl has done it before and has said she was going to try. If in your case the guy just point blank didn't want to do it then he is hardly a selfish bastard. Unless of course girls have the right to pressure guys into doing whatever they want or they become selfish bastards.