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whats wrong with my head?
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My girlfriend of 5 years and i broke up in July but I havent seen her since January as we live in different countries. My problem is that because its been so long since I have been "intimate" Im finding I no longer have the urge to be with someone new.
I have never been a sleep-around type of guy but have always been very physical with my girlfriends. I admit I am very picky when it comes to women and I would never have one night stands as I need to get to know someone first.
I have now been celibate for like 8 or 9 months and my friends reckon I should just break the duck with anyone. I have had quite a few girls approach me and some I thought were quite nice but I turned them all down. Whats worrying me is that Im not even giving myself a chance to get to know someone new never mind sleep with them!
Whats wrong with my head? Is this normal? Am I not over my girlfriend yet? Am I destined for a life in the priesthood?
I have never been a sleep-around type of guy but have always been very physical with my girlfriends. I admit I am very picky when it comes to women and I would never have one night stands as I need to get to know someone first.
I have now been celibate for like 8 or 9 months and my friends reckon I should just break the duck with anyone. I have had quite a few girls approach me and some I thought were quite nice but I turned them all down. Whats worrying me is that Im not even giving myself a chance to get to know someone new never mind sleep with them!
Whats wrong with my head? Is this normal? Am I not over my girlfriend yet? Am I destined for a life in the priesthood?
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