get the hint

BillieTheBot

hello, i split up with my bf 2 months ago and for the past month things seemed to slip back in to a relationship, he was coming round, staying in my bed, getting all the good bits, but not having to answer to me, ie: going off all night etc, so i asked him to get back with me, and he said no, which is fair enough, but he wanted thinkgs to just carry on as normal :banghead:

i decided that i couldnt get over him while he was in my face, it was breaking my heart to c him in my bed!! so all in all hen wanted his cake and to eat it!! :mad:

so last weekend, i had it out with him and told him 2go, ( i didnt handle it very well, but who does in these sitchs?) but i was sure i had got my point accross - I NEED SOME SPACE!!!

any on monday, he was asking to stay in the spair room while hes out doing his own thing this weekend, so i told him again look I NEED SOME SPACE, and he said fine, and we didnt talk all week, so i thought oh thats it hes unerstud me. :thumb:

then today i get a msg saying he is at mine. wtf do i do now????

(the thing is i live with a mate of his)

help??? can i tell him to go or should i just get on with it??? :crying:

Former Member

Tell him to go! Its not fair on you! My ex tried doing the same to me as yours. Just think of yourself!

Former Member

don't let him in, tell him to fuck off. he's being totally unreasonable and is using you. better off without. :yes:

Former Member

it was all good, because he wasnt there when i go back from work, i think he took the hint!!

yey im free, and single and it feels great. no1 2 answer to! x

Former Member

well done..you laid down the law to him..

Former Member

You just tell him to sod off, and you make sure he doesn't go anywhere near you or your bed.