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Ok. To put it simply, Me = Party Animal trapped in a shy guys body.
When i meet people i tend to either speak Wayyyyyyy to much or not at all.... usually meaning i end up annoying the hell outta people... Essentially, does anyone here have any tips for meeting new people?
Just when i goto uni i wanna meet loadsa people but dont wanna come across like a shy guy / a nob.
When i meet people i tend to either speak Wayyyyyyy to much or not at all.... usually meaning i end up annoying the hell outta people... Essentially, does anyone here have any tips for meeting new people?
Just when i goto uni i wanna meet loadsa people but dont wanna come across like a shy guy / a nob.
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But I'm sure you can try to control yourself and find a happy medium. There's a lot of us in the same boat and we've all got to just get on with it and see what happens.
As long as you look interested in what the other person is saying and you come across as confident (even if you're not) and friendly then you should have no problems.
I mean I've only encountered the odd person who isn't willing to talk for whatever their reasons are... Maybe they're shy too.
As for being a party animal... Fly free, be who you want to be because there's no time like the present to reinvent yourself.
You are right. There is this girl who is herself with other people and there is simply no line on when to stop. And when I'm around, her voice is
basically.
*The way I could state the first one is by seeing her when she does not see me*
Just be patient, I guess and you'll meet your niche..that's what Im hoping
you speaking from experience?
Lol nope. But I lived with girls who did it, one of them we never saw and ended up not really part of our flat. It just alienates you from everyone else, I can see why you would do it... .but personally? In first year, make some friends, have some fun. Thats the best way!!
Check out these articles particularly:
Making friends at Freshers week
Fresher fears
Happy student life
Hope they help calm your nerves a bit!