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kissing (question for the lads)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
do any of you get hard when you are snogging a girl?
this sometimes worries me
any suggestions to counter this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jimmy1872 wrote:
    do any of you get hard when you are snogging a girl?
    this sometimes worries me
    any suggestions to counter this?

    nope
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sometimes do, sometimes don't. I think it happens to me when I'm imagining more than the kissing, which is usually when I'm alone with a girl so its not all that bad, when in a club or something it doesn't happen probably cos I'm not thinking bout sexing her at that moment in time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its happened to me before

    but she was grinding against me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My bf used to all the time when we first met. Used to be quite fun. Now he seems to have lost all spontaneity in that department :(.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, I used to, but I do occasionally still...When out at clubs etc I don't because im probably too crowded with other people to be focusing THAT much on what its going to lead to..when im alone with a girl I do of course :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what if she is doing the bumpy grindy get you to bed moves hwile you are in the club
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I almost always get hard when I'm snogging a guy :naughty:

    I'm surprised you guys don't get very excited by your girlfriends! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FilthyChav wrote:
    My bf used to all the time when we first met.

    So did mine.... sweet aint it?

    I have given so many hard on's through dancing with guys... its fun! coz when you walk away they are stuck there in the middle of the dance floor with a hard on hahaha

    anyway sorry gettting back to subject - yes i have given hard on's through kissing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snogging :eek:

    My gf just has to say something or look @ me in a naughty way & my soldier is standing to attention ;):p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I'm kissing her or holding her tight, I get hard and she likes it that way, she knows that I still fancy the pants off her. The feel of whats inside my trousers resting against her body, says a lot more than can be said verbally.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes.

    That's because kissing (as you mean it) is a sexual experience.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It makes me feel even more attractive when a guy gets hard from just a kiss, shows he really likes me, i always take it as a compliment and would never complain :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to give my ex a hard on ALL THE TIME by kissing him. I was quite impressed at the time, but all he thought about was sex, sex and sex, so it doesn't surprise me too much now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My boyfriend gets a hard on when I kiss him in a certain way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Quite a lot of the time I do.

    If it's bothering you just stop kissing :p.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jimmy1872 wrote:
    do any of you get hard when you are snogging a girl?
    this sometimes worries me
    any suggestions to counter this?

    Why would you want to stop? It's sexy ....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It all depends on the situation, to use an example, suspose you were at a night club and a drunk girl flashed her tits at you and others as a "joke", would you get hard I wouldnt.
    but if Id taken that same girl home and wasnt sure if anything was going to happen then she flashed her tits at me I definatly would as Id think of what was about to happen.
    So a quick casual snog then no, but a passionate kiss pressing your bodys into each other then yes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i aint fussed about it, just shows the chick that she can turn me on which should be flattering
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers people, its just i thought it didnt seem right cos its only kissing.
    btw there is no way i want to give up kissing!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    think about your gran or something. might help.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haven't got a hardon in long time through purely kissing a girl, I put that down to being intoxicated last time I kissed a girl properly. Also I'm a crap kisser, or so my ex would have me believe! :p :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Harmless wrote:
    Haven't got a hardon in long time through purely kissing a girl, I put that down to being intoxicated last time I kissed a girl properly. Also I'm a crap kisser, or so my ex would have me believe! :p :yeees:

    I'm a crap kisser according to my wife, but I still get a hard on through it though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    think about your gran or something. might help.

    you'd hope so
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mystifymysoul wrote:
    you'd hope so
    VERY true!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If u kiss long enuf, and press ur body up 2 them u shud be able to get most boys hard - if they fancy u anyway :naughty::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sarahgetswet wrote:
    If u kiss long enuf, and press ur body up 2 them u shud be able to get most boys hard - if they fancy u anyway :naughty::naughty:

    True, but this thread is a little out of date.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This thread is old, old, old, older than old cheese...........................
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its quite flattering if when im kissing a bloke that happens because it means he is getting turned on so im obviously doing something right!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This thread is old, old, old, older than old cheese...........................

    ....older than that jar of brown stuff in my fridge
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    Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Posts: 13,332 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    leese wrote:
    ....older than that jar of brown stuff in my fridge
    Older than the browny red stuff that is in my freezer? :nervous:
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