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I was bullied at school but I've either repressed or got over it. Now I'm tough on the outside, with my soft centre hidden away in the middle, reserved for a few special individuals.
Cos you're a pussy.
charming fucker aint'cha? :rolleyes:
I only had a problem with it once though back in middle school. A group of older kids were giving me a hard time at school. One day they pushed me and made me drop my cup-o-noodles. I ended up chasing them down the hall and shoved one of their heads into the wall, he fell down and didn't get up for a while. After that I never had a problem.
my dad said that as well. He was at school and this lad had been pickin on him for months, so in the end, my dad turned round and smacked him one, and the teacher just stood there coz she knew what had been goin on. The lad didnt pick on him after that.
A B C D E F G, H I J K L-M-N-O P. Q R S T U V W X Y Zed.
Hope that helps.
Sincerely yours,
Tom. BSc CEng PhD FBCS FIEE HonDSc
Its bullying in the work place that i cant handle.
probably the worst thing was I went for a fag with him and a few others they rounded on me and chased me away by spitting on me.
There were a couple of others who used to take the piss, but my life was never made a living hell sometimes I didnt look forward to chemistry but that was about it.
There were a few others in the school in the year above me who were the realy nasty sort of bullies, not like the kid in my chemistry lesion who just liked to throw his weight around.
These nasty sorts (there were 2 and they realy were) bullied me occasionaly when I came in to their view but that didnt bother me much as it was just like taking my turn, one Ill call him JP, bullied boys till they sobbed and went back to give them more he gave me a few punches made me run away, and the same to a few of my mates who wernt well hard or well popular.
So if I met them now, the guy in my chemistry lesson and a couple of other toughs like him Id go up and try and nice as friendly and confident as I could maybe take the piss alittle (dont want to brag but Id probably batter them all now as I was the youngest in my year at the time and this was before I did boxing and karate and had, had a few good hard fights) so hopefully make him realise he couldnt do it anymore, and by being friendly Id take the advantage away from him, what he did to me you can forgive as boys being boys, imagin If I saw him in the pub and looked embarised and walked away he'd feel Im still bigger better than him, but by going up and saying "hows it going" it puts him on the defensive.
Any the other guy JP, If I saw him Id probably just tell himwhat a cunt he was and probably still is and see if he wanted to do anything about it.
But then me might still be able to batter me but I doubt it,
Now it's a gang :crying:
Or if I ever become an evil dictator, I could have them used for live ammo target practice. I certainly wouldn't write a letter to their house. They don't deserve my paper, nor the ink.
I sthis really prudent advice from a top barrister-to-be Kermit? Most murderers/wrongdoers get caught. For better or worse Britain is not really "an eye for an eye tooth for a tooth democracy, is it? Tongue in cheek-dom is all well and good, but be careful you nver know who may take you seriously or worse still take your advice!!
I agree with Ballerina poor train drivers. I know a tube driver who had a nervous breakdown after two passengers chucking themselves on the tube track and him mowing them down in the space of a month.
Bullying is a sign of weakness and insecurity no doubt about that.
From being bullied you obviously know how horrible it feels to receive it and wouldn't want others to experience it. On the other hand, you may want to take it out on someone else and bully them. I guess people respond do it differently. Hopefully most people who are bullied do not bully others themselves.
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with me then I probably took just enough to know properly what its like but not enough for it to seriously effect me
Some of those on site in this thread who have confessed to being bullied, and hate their bullies arnt necessarly the first ones to try and stop the much milder form of bullying that can ocasionaly occure on this very website
Hellfire anyone
You've ruined my life and I'm only just coming to realise it. Even feeling this strongly about what you did to me is destructive.
Yeah, when she mentioned that I thought she made an excellent point.
Train drivers suffer awfully from suicides and other strikes.
I'm not one of them so I'm fine;)
If I did it I'd get caught.
And the pleasure of watching them die wouldn't outweight the bugger of spending the rest of my life in the nick.
If someone wants to go and murder my bullies then I'll buy them a pint afterwards:)
NOTE: this is not an invitation to go and murder my bullies.
They made school a misery during those years, but hey every one hates them now!
it would have been fab if you had paid attention in your lessons rather than chucking those balls of chewing gum into my hair and i could share this sentiment with you:
teenage spots and frizzy hair are easily fixed, but reading is a skill for life :thumb:
thank you and goodnight x
but a simple answer is :yes: :yes:
and i've never really thought about what i'd like to say. i'm not sure anything i could say would make a difference either in the past or now.
bullying hurts... but on some level i kind of accept it.