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getting her to orgasm

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
me and my girlfriend have been goin out for a while and we both agree that we don't wanna have sex yet. she implies that she wants me to finger her but i've never done it before. i really love her and i wanna get her of w/o having intercourse and she said when her ex-boyfriend fingered her it hurt and she didn't have an orgasm. i really want her to have an orgasm but don't know wat to do. please anyone w/ suggestions help quick!


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know, i know, i know!!!

    Soz jus a bit excited cos i can answer this question.
    My b/f seriously was/is on a mission to give me an orgasm, which doesnt bother me if he doesnt, but neway...he finds it difficult and asked me if i touched myself, which i didnt at th time, but hav sinse tried jus to see how difficult it really is. It worked, i gave myself an orgasm, but i havent plucked up the courage yet to tell/show him.
    Neaway, so this is my explanation, hope it makes sum sense.
    lick ur finger first, just so theres a fair bit of spit there, then just gently do circular movement over her clitoris keep doing this and check every so often if shes wet by moving ur finger to her opening.
    Once shes wet start to gradually stroke her clit faster, and aply more pressure. you shold be able to tell if its working by the way she reacts.
    Hope this helps. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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