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my freind took and overdose..........

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
she took 16 paracetamols in 10 mins she broke up with her b/f.She keeps on threatening to slit her wrists and commit suicide in other ways wot can i do to make her b herself again she really loved him?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sexylaydee:
    she took 16 paracetamols in 10 mins she broke up with her b/f.She keeps on threatening to slit her wrists and commit suicide in other ways wot can i do to make her b herself again she really loved him?
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    All you can do is let her know you care, it may be enough & it may not, but it's worth a try
    j9

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've had a very similar situation happen with one of my best friends, she split up with her b/f and became suicidle over xmas, one night when I went out with her up to my friends house, she began orgasming (which is often does off MDMA) and after getting on the bus she began convulsing, I managed to sort her out and we got to my friends house and she then became paranoid and phoned her ex who shouted at her leading her to panic and then pass out.. I needed to get her home so I walked her about 8 miles through blizzard snow conditions to her house (bout 3 hrs walk at 2am) but she wouldn't tell me what she'd taken, I figured it must of been alcohol, Es and Base but I wasn't sure what else...

    Only advice I can give is to be there for her and offer your support, she will eventually come round to it.. its certainly a difficult time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm so sorry to hear this <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; ... it must be really hard for you and for the family and friends of the person who's ill.
    Personally...I don't think that trying to force them back together will help, as a friend once told me,

    "a relationship is like a boulder, the more you push it, the more likely someone's gonna get hurt."

    Like j9 says, it's best for you to be there for her, she really needs it now. There is nothing worse than feeling like nobody cares, so maybe you should get some of her other friends to help her through this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i once had a friend like that. her b/f broke up with her right before the school formal and he took some other girl. she was devastated. she thought she couldn't live without him and that he was her everything...

    i was with her throughout it all. kept telling her that he wasn't THAT good and pointed out his bad points to her. told her how much i care and she had us all behind her. i went out clubbing with her and i tried to bring her back to our group, what it was like gossiping, flirting etc etc before her b/f came along. it was a really slow process...but she eventually came round.

    it takes time...and the best advice is be there for her.

    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx u guys! I'll make sure she knows i care 4 her
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