Giving a good blow job?

Former Member

I have given my bf a hand job and he has cum so I hope that means he enjoyed it. He wants me to give him a blow job but Iam a bit scared. I want to but dont know how. People say suck it like a lollipop but which bits? Is there bits on the penis more sensitive - Iam not very sexually aware and dont have a clue. The last thing I want to do is hurt him....

Please provide advice - like from the basics...

Thanks in advance

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http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/askthesiteqandas/sexualhealthqandas/oralinstructions

Try that link. I'm sure if you search the forums you will find lots of helpful info.

Former Member

go by his reactions to see what he likes, ask him to tell you how much he enjoys it. Just dont be very very rough, although some guys like a bit of firmness!

Former Member

Ask him what he likes first of all.

Get relaxed and try things out. I wank my bf off for a while first and then slowly put him in my mouth. Don't start bobbing your head straight away - take your time and build up a nice speed that suits you and him. Oh yeah...and gently fondle and massage his balls while you're sucking his knob - he'll probably love that

Spit or swallow - it's up to you, don't feel you have to. What I do depends on my mood- sometimes I swallow or I let him come on my face or boobs...although I often give him bjs in the car, park, cinema etc so swallowing is the easist option - less mess! lol

Enjoy yourself!

Former Member

This link on giving him good head might help you too.

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Former Member

Well at least you're willing to try, every girl I've been with has never even bothered, despite requests and me doing it for them many times

I think he'll be pleased you're just making an effort.

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~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

Nothing is worse than a guy pecking your head all the time for blow jobs and when you do give them him, he never returns the favour. Nothing is worse than giving a guy loads of blow jobs and him not even thinking that you might want and love oral too. Its not just guys that love oral you know!!!

eh?

I am a bloke, and it is always me who gives oral and never recieves? I don't get your point?

Former Member

~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

I was also making a point that if you keep pestering a girl for a blow job then you just won't get one

:yes: men, take note!!

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~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

I was just saying that is not just girls that can behave like that, guys can also.

I was also making a point that if you keep pestering a girl for a blow job then you just won't get one. You can tell her you would like one and she would then give you one when she was ready and willing.

I was also making a point that I understand how annoying it is when you give oral to someone and you crave oral back but they just don't do it even though you make the biggest hints!

OK, I understand what you meant now.

So what do you do when you're in this situation? I give oral to my current g/f I would say two thirds of the time we have sex. She knows I would like her to return the favour, but I never ask her to do it. I don't want to get into the position where she knows she is going to get it anyway and doesn't have to do it back. I have been like that with all the other girls I've been with and really don't want it to happen again. Do I carry on and hope one day she will? Talk to her about it, or just stop doing it for her?