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Feel like crap...
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Hey guys. I apologise in advance for this rant but I realy need to vent some frustration as this is making me feel like crap.
About 4 months ago a girl emailed me from faceparty and we got to talking. I very quickly started to get on extremely well with this girl. We used to talk on msn for several hours a day, we talked on the phone all the time, txt each other etc. After about a month or so she told me that she really liked me, as more than just a friend. I was absolutely overjoyed when she said this, as i dont have much luck with girls, and as far as i was concerned, she was absolutely perfect. The next few months I felt happier that I had in a long time, and we got on so well, the only problem was she lived about 3 hours drive away, but i was going to go and visit her, she was gonna come visit me etc.
Anyways, the other morning I wake up and turn on my phone to find a txt from her, saying that she'd been lying awake all night thinking, and she'd decided that she fancies her best mate from home. This has really fucked me up, and I can't stop thinking about it.
I've been in situations before where girls I like hook up with other guys, so the feeling isnt alien to me, but this was the first time a girl has ever confessed to actually like me as more than just a friend. Even thought nothing has actually happened between her and her frined yet, i dont think shes even told him, all i cant think about is them being together etc, and it's making me feel like shit. I know it's pathetic for me to get so worked up like this over someone I never even met, and probably had no future with, but i just feel like total shit.
I really don't know what to do now, I just feel so lost, my self-confidence has really taken a kicking, not that i had any to begin with. Any help or advice would be welcomed.
About 4 months ago a girl emailed me from faceparty and we got to talking. I very quickly started to get on extremely well with this girl. We used to talk on msn for several hours a day, we talked on the phone all the time, txt each other etc. After about a month or so she told me that she really liked me, as more than just a friend. I was absolutely overjoyed when she said this, as i dont have much luck with girls, and as far as i was concerned, she was absolutely perfect. The next few months I felt happier that I had in a long time, and we got on so well, the only problem was she lived about 3 hours drive away, but i was going to go and visit her, she was gonna come visit me etc.
Anyways, the other morning I wake up and turn on my phone to find a txt from her, saying that she'd been lying awake all night thinking, and she'd decided that she fancies her best mate from home. This has really fucked me up, and I can't stop thinking about it.
I've been in situations before where girls I like hook up with other guys, so the feeling isnt alien to me, but this was the first time a girl has ever confessed to actually like me as more than just a friend. Even thought nothing has actually happened between her and her frined yet, i dont think shes even told him, all i cant think about is them being together etc, and it's making me feel like shit. I know it's pathetic for me to get so worked up like this over someone I never even met, and probably had no future with, but i just feel like total shit.
I really don't know what to do now, I just feel so lost, my self-confidence has really taken a kicking, not that i had any to begin with. Any help or advice would be welcomed.
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