Masturbatory Moratorium

Former Member

So I've been putting myself through a regimen of reduced masturbation. I went for a whole week without masturbation, and I hope to go for 40 days starting today. So wish me luck!

(If you're female, you may not understand that this is actually difficult.)

Former Member

why?

it's only natural :yes:


(Unless of course, you were doing it so much it was controlling you life

OR

You consider it a sin, but it's probably too late for you now if you've already done it once )

but other than that, there's nothing wrong with masturbation at all...

Former Member

Er... good luck?

Former Member

Ohhh how many times I hav tried to stop! i think my willy gives off nicotine when its "up" lol
addicted i think!

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neolithicfellow wrote:

So I've been putting myself through a regimen of reduced masturbation. I went for a whole week without masturbation, and I hope to go for 40 days starting today. So wish me luck!

I don't wish you luck. You must be absolutely fucking mad. Why on earth are you doing this? :eek2:

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I just realized the negative effect of masturbation on my life. On one hand, I'm always turned on because masturbation keeps up my libido levels. I'm just trying to get a handle on my libido (no pun intended) and get my mind off sex for a little while. In the meanwhile, I'll limit any possible sexual encounters to those with partners, which is how I'd prefer it anyways.

Former Member

Errrmmm........why are you doing this? I can understand wanting to reduce the amount but stopping completely? It's only natural to want a release.

You're like a modern day Jesus. 40 days and 40 nights out in a ham shank desert.

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By the way, if you cut down, each session becomes a lot better.

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neolithicfellow wrote:

By the way, if you cut down, each session becomes a lot better.

Because your gagging for it...?! Or maybe just the loss of familiarity makes the reunion that much more special...?

Teh_Gerbil

stargalaxy wrote:

I don't wish you luck. You must be absolutely fucking mad. Why on earth are you doing this? :eek2:

Im with him... nothing wrong with it, as long as it is in moderation.

If you do it though, let us know, you've earned my respect.

Former Member

To be truthful, I don't think I'll last 40 days. However, this may help me cut down to once or twice a week over the long run, which is I think where I want to be.

BTW, spacing it out makes it better because the sensations are much more heightened when you're not doing it all the time. And the orgasms are a lot stronger, i.e. you can hit impressive targets.

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I actually find the amount of wanking I do more impressive than the amount I don't do ....

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How many times would u say u do it a week?

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neolithicfellow wrote:

I'm just trying to ...get my mind off sex for a little while. ...

Somehow I doubt that not masturbating will help you in this.

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Is it really naturally to browse porn and wank every day? I highly doubt it. I mean, I used to try to best my single-day records for days in a row, and that can't be any more natural than never wanking it for forty days. (My single day record is four... yes, a bit weak, but I don't care enough to go for five in a day)

I think it's already helping me be at ease. Deny yourself something for a while and your body wants it more, but over time, your body copes with it.

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neolithicfellow wrote:

Is it really naturally to browse porn and wank every day? I highly doubt it. I mean, I used to try to best my single-day records for days in a row, and that can't be any more natural than never wanking it for forty days. (My single day record is four... yes, a bit weak, but I don't care enough to go for five in a day)

I think it's already helping me be at ease. Deny yourself something for a while and your body wants it more, but over time, your body copes with it.

Whatever works for you I guess.

I don't see anything wrong with doing what you describe every day though.

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Good luck with that! Longest I've managed is 3 weeks!

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I've been considering something like this to see if I have the will power,

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Mist wrote:

Whatever works for you I guess.

I don't see anything wrong with doing what you describe every day though.

It can become controlling though, when you're spending literally hours thinking about it or doing it. I tried to stop altogether once because my girlfriend at the time thought it was disgusting . Thankfully, I only managed about a week, and then I settled into a good regimen. A few times a week is a nice amount, more than once a day it's just too much. For me, at least

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neolithicfellow wrote:

By the way, if you cut down, each session becomes a lot better.

But unfortunately, a LOT shorter.

Former Member

I think its good to do it a few times a week, there would be nothing worse than for sex to be over quickly just because youve been denying yourself a wank.

We all go through our bad stages but once a day or a few times a day is normal really, i like to make sex last and id find it a bit unfair on my girlfriend if i was over quickly just so i could have a better sensation

So to put my mind at rest im wanking for her sake and not because i enjoy it :razz:

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TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:

I tried to stop altogether once because my girlfriend at the time thought it was disgusting .

LOL. Oh dear. Oh deary me... She'll soon change her mind when she starts sorting herself out!