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the truth about homophobic men.....

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    And......... it is tottaly revolting! wot is the big deal if you find i disgusting?
    Get on with your own life and stop worrying about other peoples phobias!

    Maybe you should get on with yours and stop stressing over what other people do in bed.

    Methinks the boy doth protest too much.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    And......... it is tottaly revolting! wot is the big deal if you find i disgusting?

    It's no more revolting and disgusting than you giving a girl anal, or kissing her, or anything of that sort, and I bet you don't have a problem with THAT do you?!

    It's two people being attracted to each other and wanting to show it.

    Dear CHRIST I hate homophobes :|.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dear CHRIST I hate homophobes :|.

    :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heh, thanks :p.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sexpod wrote:
    Cmon don't bs-- If someone were to tie you up blind fold you and started kissing you down your body -- you would get aroused end of story.

    Interesting that people get annoyed about blanket statements that get made about homosexuals- how about that for a blanket statement about HETEROSEXUALS!! I was born straight, I am straight and I will die straight. Nothing a man could ever do to me would excite me. Quite the opposite- I would be completely turned off. If we're using the logic that basically ANYONE doing something sexual to you will turn you on a bit, does this extend to animals as well?!! Come on!! I am not homophobic at all and don't think blanket statements should be made about gays. Nor do I think they should be made about hetros.

    Anyway this is the most ridiculous analogy I've ever read- the reason I go out with girls and not lads is because I've got eyes so I can see the difference. In reality who sits there, gets blindfolded and kissed up and down on a chair?!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anal is disgustin!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Y do it up the bum if there is a purrfectly good pussy there!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Run along and play with your toys, child. Or go and practice knocking one out. You never know, one day you might actually come across this 'pussy' you're fantasising about - it's be useful to have worked out how your knob works by then.

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So...back on topic. Did the experiment prove that:

    a) Even though you can hate the whole gay thing you still find the act of sex or the notion of a sexual circumstance a turn on?

    or

    b) They're in denial?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    Anal is disgustin!

    Well that's your opinion.

    However, what about kissing? Touching? I bet you don't mind too much when a girl gives you head huh? How is that any different from a guy giving another guy head? I bet if you closed your eyes you couldn't tell the difference mate. In fact, I bet the guy would be better, as he'd know the male anatomy better.

    How is a guy kissing a guy any more disgusting than a girl kissing a guy? It's still two people, who are attracted to each other etc.

    Please tell me why exactly you find two guys kissing or whatever more disgusting than if it were a straight couple. Because I fail to see your logic.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jazza wrote:
    So...back on topic. Did the experiment prove that:

    a) Even though you can hate the whole gay thing you still find the act of sex or the notion of a sexual circumstance a turn on?

    or

    b) They're in denial?

    A bit of both. Certainly (b) is true of a fair few homophobic men - but that's been known for a long time. That experiment with gay porn and straight men was first done in the 1960s.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Because I fail to see your logic.

    There's a good reason for that: there is no logic!

    It's just silly little macho posturing by a boy who's barely worked out how to have a wank.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ibex wrote:
    There's a good reason for that: there is no logic!

    It's just silly little macho posturing by a boy who's barely worked out how to have a wank.
    That's what I thought. Now, zooby, I have some pretty pictures for you to look at, and I want you to tell me what is different about one from the other, ok?

    Number one and number two. How is one more disgusting than the other? Tell me that..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Please tell me why exactly you find two guys kissing or whatever more disgusting than if it were a straight couple. Because I fail to see your logic.

    Thats because there simply is no logic.
    :yeees:

    Kissing someone is kissing someone. Who gives a shit what gender they are. We are all people and no one should solely judge others on their sexual orientation.

    It's all crap. Underneath it all we are all the same, regardless of age, gender, sexuality, class, nationality etc. People are people and should be accepted for who they are regardless of all that.

    /end rant.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *applauds you*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is there any straight people here that think its ok for guys to kiss each other!

    you would be able to tell the dif iguess!

    what about stuble!

    lol

    STOP
    TAKING
    EVERYTHING
    SO
    GOD
    DAM
    SERIOUS!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ibex wrote:
    Run along and play with your toys, child. Or go and practice knocking one out. You never know, one day you might actually come across this 'pussy' you're fantasising about - it's be useful to have worked out how your knob works by then.

    :rolleyes:

    Make sense!

    So because i think its strange for guys to kiss, I somehow fantisise about a pussy!
    Hav u not noticed some of the posts i hav put up!

    there aint no fantisising you fuking geek!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    Is there any straight people here that think its ok for guys to kiss each other!

    Yes. Me, mystifymysoul, pretty much everyone else that's replied to this thread. Except for YOU.

    I take things like this seriously because I HATE homophobes. I have a lot of homosexual friends, and they are some of the most wonderful people I know.

    You still haven't explained your logic to me, either.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    Is there any straight people here that think its ok for guys to kiss each other!

    Nobody I know - gay or straight - has a particular problem with me and my boyfriend showing affection in front of them. Doubt they'd want to watch us shagging, but then I wouldn't really want to watch them with their partners either. Well, there's one or two I wouldn't mind watching in bed, but that's another story...

    Stop taking things seriously? If you'd given the impression you were joking I wouldn't have, but it does become rather wearing, being told that because you happen to be gay you're 'disgusting.' Just occasionally, the temptation to rant back is hard to resist.

    You're a bit calmer than you were earlier anyway. I hope you wiped up afterwards.

    <edit: just seen your last couple of posts, and perhaps I'm wrong. Go and yank that plank for a bit - you'll feel a whole lot more relaxed afterwards. Who know, the image of some toned, tanned, muscular young man might flit through your mind whilst yo're doing it...>
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    Make sense!

    So because i think its strange for guys to kiss, I somehow fantisise about a pussy!
    Hav u not noticed some of the posts i hav put up!

    there aint no fantisising you fuking geek!

    Er...
    zooby wrote:
    Y do it up the bum if there is a purrfectly good pussy there!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooby wrote:
    Make sense!

    So because i think its strange for guys to kiss, I somehow fantisise about a pussy!
    Hav u not noticed some of the posts i hav put up!

    there aint no fantisising you fuking geek!

    Well what do you fantasise about, then? What you're going to do when you grow up?

    Obviously I was wrong - you're still acting like a nasty, abusive little brat. Go and yank that plank for a bit - you;'ll feel a whole lot calmer afterwards, and who knows, the image of some nice, toned, tanned, lithe young man might be drifting through your mind as you're doing it...
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    I find the idea of sex between two men quite revolting :yuck: - but lesbians :naughty:

    I can't see anything wrong that that! What turns you on and what turns you off is different for everybody. Leave it that.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Please tell me why exactly you find two guys kissing or whatever more disgusting than if it were a straight couple.

    Why are some people straight and some gay?
    There isn't always and explenation when it comes to what turns you on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sexpod wrote:
    Cmon don't bs-- If someone were to tie you up blind fold you and started kissing you down your body -- you would get aroused end of story.

    Stimulation could possibly cause a hard-on, but the fact it's a guy would probably act as a counterweight.

    What if i tied you up, covered your dick in Pedigree Chum and then let the dog suck you off? Does that mean you're partial to a bit of bestiality?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol naaa dnt think so!
    Dnt hav anything against gays themselves (as one person)
    but when gays become 2 people! even just kissin it tottaly freaks me out!
    I am sure there is something in the world that freaks u out!
    remember just because u dnt find it freaky doesnt mean no1 else will!
    and y do u think that pullin the plunjer gonna make me happy!
    i am already happy! dnt need to go n pull ma plunjer
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I'm probably wrong when I say this, but there are a lot of homosexuals in my school... with plenty of homophobes aswel. I'm not sure if this relates to life outside of my school, but when the homophobes insult and attempt to annoy a homosexual, he doesn't fight back or shout or anything, they just walk away. What makes me mad is that people who don't like gays just don't show any respect to them when they show they don't need to fight to stand up for themselves. Why can't they just leave them alone?!

    Damn homophobes.

    I've probably made no sense but I get what i mean, lol :P :S
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    I find the idea of sex between two men quite revolting :yuck: - but lesbians :naughty:

    I can't see anything wrong that that! What turns you on and what turns you off is different for everybody. Leave it that.

    Maybe so, but just because something doesn't turn you on, doesn't make it disgusting.

    Plus - I don't have a problem with people finding gay sex disgusting, but I don't see why people have such a problem with guys kissing or holding hands. I really, REALLY can't.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "IM NOT A HOMOPHOBE, I AINT SCARED OF ME OUSE!"

    a famouse quoe from the one and olny Peter kay!
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Maybe so, but just because something doesn't turn you on, doesn't make it disgusting.

    There are a few hetrosexual fetishes that I find pretty revolting too.

    I don't find two guys kissing very nice, that's just how it is. And it's certainly not because I'm a ginger in denial.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    There are a few hetrosexual fetishes that I find pretty revolting too.

    I don't find two guys kissing very nice, that's just how it is. And it's certainly not because I'm a ginger in denial.

    'ginger in denial' what's that supposed to mean?
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