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Are my wild child days over for good?
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I've always loved alchohol, rec drugs and partying. Now I'm 5 months pregnant and obviously not touching anything like that. My question is though, is that side of my life over for good?
I'm not an irresponsible person in general, I just like having fun. Even though I'm bit of a party girl, I still go to uni, have a good job and am reliable to friends and family.
So wot's the deal? Can I still enjoy myself at the weekend, when I know the baby will be well looked after? Or is that incredibly selfish of me? I don't want to just be a mum and a wifely figure. I want me and el boyf to still be able to have fun together, not just be mum and dad.
Answers on a postcard please. Honesty really appreciated....
I'm not an irresponsible person in general, I just like having fun. Even though I'm bit of a party girl, I still go to uni, have a good job and am reliable to friends and family.
So wot's the deal? Can I still enjoy myself at the weekend, when I know the baby will be well looked after? Or is that incredibly selfish of me? I don't want to just be a mum and a wifely figure. I want me and el boyf to still be able to have fun together, not just be mum and dad.
Answers on a postcard please. Honesty really appreciated....
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Those parties are the best I've ever been to, and its funny seeing them all loved-up and getting all sentimental about their kids. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> awww, sweet!
They do it once in a while and everything is cleaned up and come-downs over by the time the kids return. I don't see anything wrong with that at all, they never have drugs in the house... they get someone to bring them on the night n stuff.
Even parents should get to let their hair down and party, you need your own life outside being a mum, if only for a night! It'll keep you sane and happy and then you'll be a better mum to be around! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Well, I know my mates manage it sensibly, and are great parents. I guess you'll just have to play it by ear and see...?