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What would u do if u found out ure m8 is a fish-fingers? and bi?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
okay so us three found out a little while back, about a month to be precise, that quite a good mate of ours masturbates, yes ok everyone is entitled to their own, but hey we never expected from her, and it shocked us, and just the way that she is so open about things,, i.e. "i bring myself to orgasm, otherwise there is no point" it's kind of freaky, you can understaned our point of view? also, the other day she told us how she was tonguing other gals, as if she does it regularly?! for goodness sake she hasn't even seen a penis! we don't mind about that, the fact is that she has never denied that she hasn't seen other things... dare i say any more? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <img src="null" alt="image">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Youre 18 years old and your worried that your mate masturbates?

    Im having trouble working out what your problem is.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    90% of people masturbate. I often talk about it with my friend (usually when we are pissed). Big deal. Get over it, it's natural.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by slice of flange-no fish fingers:
    <STRONG>okay so us three found out a little while back, about a month to be precise, that quite a good mate of ours masturbates, yes ok everyone is entitled to their own, but hey we never expected from her, and it shocked us, and just the way that she is so open about things,, i.e. "i bring myself to orgasm, otherwise there is no point" it's kind of freaky, you can understaned our point of view? also, the other day she told us how she was tonguing other gals, as if she does it regularly?! for goodness sake she hasn't even seen a penis! we don't mind about that, the fact is that she has never denied that she hasn't seen other things... dare i say any more? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <img src="null" alt="image"></STRONG>


    erm...what exactly is your point?
    I don't know what's funnier, the fact that you're shocked, or the fact that you'd think we'd be shocked by it!
    Ever heard of a thing called an OPEN MIND?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she gets a bit too xcited i.e touchy feely and its just summit that shud b kept to urself she's too open!!!!!
    u obviously do it so ure biased
    we'd rather she kept it behind closed doors and we is the most open and upfront people we know bout sex you have to think bout other people! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So what if you mate is honest about her sexuality GOOD FOR HER! Let her do what she wants she is her own person.

    Also I like my friends to be open with me, freinds listen well good friends do anyway.

    I would not care if they told me they masterbate and are bi, I don't see whats so wrong with that.

    [ 17-04-2002: Message edited by: Naughty Little Angel ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by slice of flange-no fish fingers:
    <STRONG>she gets a bit too xcited i.e touchy feely and its just summit that shud b kept to urself she's too open!!!!!
    u obviously do it so ure biased
    we'd rather she kept it behind closed doors and we is the most open and upfront people we know bout sex you have to think bout other people! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    *cries* Please speak properly <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    And about anything else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah, youre just pissed because shes not as prudish as you.

    Cant have people actually talking about something that is perfectly natural and that almost everyone on earth does.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HEY YOU PEOPLE TODAY'S SOCIETY IS VERY CRASS AND FAR TO OPEN ABOUT CERTAIN ISSUES. MASTURBATING SHOULD BE KEPT TO YOURSELF AND YOUR SEXUAL PARTNERS, IT ISN'T THE TYPE OF THING MOST FRIENDS ENJOY DISCUSSING 'TECHNIQUES'? YOU ARE ALL OBVIOUSLY VERY SHALLOW PEOPLE AND SHOULD NOT EXPECT EVERYONE'S ACTIONS TO BE 'HEY WOW CAN I JOIN YOU'!
    LASTLY, THAT SORT OF STUFF ISN'T REALLY SOMETHING YOU WANT EVERYONE TO KNOW ABOUT.
    YOU CAN ALL STOP BEING SO PETTY, IT'S ONLY A TOPIC WE POSTED DUE TO OUR CONCERNS, JUST CHILLOUT?!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh. My. God.

    Did I just read that? I worry, I really do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you are the one who should 'Chill out'
    I think people should be free to speak their mind ever heard of freedom of speech? What if you really wanted to talk about something and every1 was horrible about it and no1 would listen. Stop being so selfish and get out of that little fantasy place you live in and come back to the real world.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes I am so shallow and so dippy and obsessed with sex.

    If someone is going on about it 24/7 then just say it to them to give it a rest. No big deal.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    P.S.

    YES MASTURBATING IS ABOUT EXPLORING YOUR BODY AND FINDING OUT WHAT YOU ENJOY, HOWEVER IF YOU NEED TO DO IT THAT OFTEN, WORRYING? IF YOU'RE SINGLE THEN OK, BUT WHEN NOT DO U NOT EVER ORGASM WITH YOUR PARTNER???

    WE ARE NOT PRUDES!!! SUCK MY WET JUICY CHERRY!!! LMBMFAO!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OOOHHH WE'VE JUST GONE SOLO ALL TOGETHER, YOU WOULDN'T BELIEVE THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you calling me Bi.....? LMAO hahaha!

    It's great when an anoymous user name makes people think I might be a bi-sexual girl who likes masturbating!

    Maybe, just maybe you should let your friend get on with whatever she is doing. She's obviously enjoying it, maybe you should give it a try and erm...PISS OFF.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This makes me giggle. Not because there are people who are so worried about masturbation, but the fact she's from Essex and lists her occupation as "Pole dancer/glamour model".

    So, I'm sorry, what exactly is the problem? You've got a mate that does it? Then you're narrowminded.

    You've got a mate that does it and talks about it? You're still narrowminded, but if you could just tell her that you're really not interested.

    You've got a mate that does it and talks about it continuously? Then ok, same deal. Tell her to shut up about it.

    But in all honesty, I think you're just a troll. A clever troll, as these things go, but a troll nonetheless. In which case you will be flamed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've just read all this and I swear it must be a joke or something. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion but I've never heard anyone with views like yours. How can you believe masturbating lots is wrong? why exactly??!! and how can you think your friend is wierd for wanting to talk to you about it, I love the way me and my mates can talk about anything to do with sex, and I mean anything!!

    ps. I MASTURBATE EVERY DAY AND I'M PROUD! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why not moan to her about this? Instead of us, what do you want us to do, just go 'yes right, we whole heartedly agree, 100%' tell her you dont want her telling you, its a simple thing to do and will solve all your problems. Oh and if she masterbates to orgasm, good for her, just cos she doesnt need/want a bloke to do it doesnt mean anything. Maybe you should get with the program a little and stop expecting blokes to do all the work for you, when you can quite easily do it yourself to!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, we can see that this girl is open about her tendencies...but if her friends don't want it in their face...so to speak. Then maybe she should respect that?

    -Greenfields.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    9 out of 10 people masterbate, the others lie.

    Cheeky Troll.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Has she actually said that she's bi? I get off with girls, but i'm not bi. I'm just having a good time and experimenting. Oh yeah, and i masturbate. Does this make me a bad person?!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    blimey im surprised she wants to be friends with you at all, you sound like a retard
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I bumpped in to an old friend a while ago.
    meet up regular went drinking etc...
    one day on door step i enter house get told " by the way im gay"
    wat was my reaction?????
    ""so are we going to the pub or not?""
    i have no problem with this wat so ever. its great fun to have bi or gay friends you get to talk more freely.. just respect them as you would your other mates. big fat hairy deal. i still get drunk and stay round no problem.
    yes i am stright.
    dont loss a friend over something so silly good friends are hard to find
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    dont go <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> go <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think we may have exhausted this one, guys
    (and please don't post with caps lock on - i's like being shouted at).

    Anyone looking for more info on exploring sexuality, we can provide http://www.thesite.org/info/relationships/sexuality/exploring_your_sexuality.html
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