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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I know we all have them... I was wondering how many of you have them about more risque things and how many of you are candlelight dinner/ sunset on a beach types. How common is it to have very extreme fantasies and not act on them (or want to) and how common is it to have them and to act on them?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've read things about people having fantasies about being raped.
    this is beyond me.
    but apparently it's natural.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    actually amadee, i think most people have extreme or violent fantasies and that it's natural. however, the majority of people know the difference between fantasy and reality and don't ever act on violent ones.

    if more people did, i think we'd be much closer to anarchy.

    of course, everyday you hear about someone else walking in to a school or business and shooting up the place. maybe society is becoming more mentally unstable overall...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my fantasy is to be happy

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    my fantasy is to be happy


    (((EM))) dont i make you happy with my charming banter on Yahoo??!?!

    Anyway, im going on holiday with my gf soon, and i have 3 things i want to do:
    Do it in the sea/swimming pool
    on the beach in the moonlight
    and best of all, I want to join the mile high club.
    But she's only interested in the beach one, bugger.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TBH my fantasies don't get any more erotic than kissing ..... except when I'm imagining it I'm actually feeling something, I'd love for that to happen in reality!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    amadee - why does it say you are from the US and the UK? how does that work?

    whowhere - of course you make me happy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I grew up in Oxford & it's home to me but I'm living in the US right now. Hopefully I'll be able to go back in a year or two for a little bit. It's a long story =]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by amadee:
    I grew up in Oxford & it's home to me but I'm living in the US right now. Hopefully I'll be able to go back in a year or two for a little bit. It's a long story =]

    u know what? apparently i grew up in america but im in oxford right now.
    THAT is an even LONGER story <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzieLovesCalvin: you want to bet? =] mine involves visas, death, divorce and teen angst. The long shot of it is that I got kicked out of England, never to return. It's really hard to get a visa there and for various reasons I could never get joint citizenship so I'm stuck here. However I'm hoping to get a student visa in a year or so and go live in my house that's currently being rented out, then when I have to come back we'll probably sell it and that really will be the end of living in England for me. Unless I marry a brit or become so wonderful that I'm the only person in the world that could possibly be hired for a job.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol, mine involves a boyfriend with an overactive imagination.
    but, if you're after me between the uk and america..

    visas, adoption, child abuse, divorce, death, rape, a lorra lorra teenage angst <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">, finding The One and having parents who are protective when it's convenient.
    oh that was fun
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    do i win? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wildchild, i too used to get little from kissing but i do now. Just got a little bit more adverturous in technique and made sure that kissing was given lots of attention and hey presto i get really turned on by it now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my fantasies used to be a threesome with two females. That would still be great, but it would also be nice to try a threesome with a female and a male.
    A great spot to have sex I think would be in my hot tub. mmmm *drools*
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Blessed Be

    [This message has been edited by Talimur (edited 03-05-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok suzie you win =]
    yeah... I've always wondered what a threesome would be like...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to be honest, a relationship of any kind would be good, but sex in a shower would be awesome.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I guess you all know that undressing a bloke in a suit would turn me on by now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; And i'd like to have sex [or you know some sort of stuff] in a swimming pool. Like.. the one in romeo and juliet ? At nighttime but floodlit. Christ. [Goes off to think about that one so more......]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freya:
    Well I guess you all know that undressing a bloke in a suit would turn me on by now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; And i'd like to have sex [or you know some sort of stuff] in a swimming pool. Like.. the one in romeo and juliet ? At nighttime but floodlit. Christ. [Goes off to think about that one so more......]

    sounds like that could get complex...*imagines* "but i want this...but take out that cos i didn;t like it in the movie...and make sure the water isn't too heavily chlorinated...and do u think we should have champange by the side as well...and what do we do after we come, cos it's kinda hard to roll over and go to sleep" lol..i'll shuttup now.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WHY must you be so mean to me turtle?!! I was just stating my opinion, you have to go and be all dismissive. I guess I have no fantasies then, obviously what I thought would be nice wouldn't be so I should just stick to unimaginative, uninventive stuff like a bed then?

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry, calm down. u misunderstood. i was just being sarcastic and extracting the michael.

    sorry...i wasn't being mean, at least not intentionally. sorry if u found it offensive.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freya:
    WHY must you be so mean to me turtle?!! I was just stating my opinion, you have to go and be all dismissive. I guess I have no fantasies then, obviously what I thought would be nice wouldn't be so I should just stick to unimaginative, uninventive stuff like a bed then?


    Awwwwwwww freya, Turtle was just having fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; you'll get used to him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; he's a sweetie really <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    j9




    A wise man is always happy to be corrected
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    Awwwwwwww freya, Turtle was just having fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; you'll get used to him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; he's a sweetie really <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    j9


    grrrrr put put


    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    i don't really mind being called cute or sweetie, and i AM harmless so i got no probs with peeps calling me that.

    soo...yeah, c'mon, try n annoy me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Remember this post from Miss_K's thread Turtle?!? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sum ppl have sick fantasies but in reality they wouldn't want them 2 happen. like bout being raped - it's natural to have fantasies bout it but i doubt any1 would wanna actually be raped lol but other fantasies hehe...i would so want them 2 cum true!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wicked*wicca:
    Sum ppl have sick fantasies but in reality they wouldn't want them 2 happen. like bout being raped - it's natural to have fantasies bout it but i doubt any1 would wanna actually be raped lol but other fantasies hehe...i would so want them 2 cum true!

    yeah, relly funny.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Remember this post from Miss_K's thread Turtle?!? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    i don't know what ur on about. YOU wrote that post, c'mon, I know u did. just trying to get me into trouble (or summin).

    ahem. *coughs suspiciously and hurridly walks away*

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zero:
    to be honest, a relationship of any kind would be good, but sex in a shower would be awesome.

    Sex in the shower isnt as good as it sounds. Yeah, it's all wet and slippery and soap makes a good lubricant, but the heat of the water makes the penis pretty insensitive and you dont "feel" it as much as you would when you're dry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I wouldn't mind having sex on an office desk. Someone important's, like maybe George W Bush's. But not with George W Bush, obviously. No offence to his missus, I'm sure he's great in bed. But I really wouldn't want to find out...

    Just ignore me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:

    Just ignore me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*

    ignore who?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ugh.. just the thought of dubya turns me off SO much. *shudders*
    evil, evil, evil!
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