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erection probs!
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help me please!
my boyfriend and i have been sleeping together for about 4months now.At first with condoms,and then i started the pill.but when we used condoms,my boyfriend oftern lost his erection while putting one on.Since then he often loses it,because even without condoms,he's scared he wont be able to keep it up,and ill disappoint me.
Does anyone have any advice i can give him, nothing i say stops him worrying.
mandy xx
my boyfriend and i have been sleeping together for about 4months now.At first with condoms,and then i started the pill.but when we used condoms,my boyfriend oftern lost his erection while putting one on.Since then he often loses it,because even without condoms,he's scared he wont be able to keep it up,and ill disappoint me.
Does anyone have any advice i can give him, nothing i say stops him worrying.
mandy xx
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Its all anxiety, if you lead up with serious foor play but DO NOT touch his penis or balls at all, it will drive him crazy, and he will be as hard as a plank. That should get it up and as long as you make him feel comfortable and dont stress out at all then he should b as rite as rain. the most important bit though is not to touch his penis it'll drive him, and it crazy! And, well im sure you know the rest.