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Slag Or Not ??
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Ok then, so your a guy who's with a new girl, been with her quite a while now and slept with her after just under two weeks of being togther. Before you she was seeing another guy and slept with him. At that time the girl was 15 and was when she slept with you for the first time. What would your opinion be on that girl?
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specific to this though....it depends what her reasons are for sleeping with the guys. if she felt she really loved them and wanted to take that step :rolleyes: then that wouldnt make her a slut.
I know 15 is only a year under the age of consent, but nonetheless I'd worry at that age that she is having sex to gain acceptance, and not for her own reasons.
i used 2 be in a long term relationship that i got really hurt in n i slept with him after 5 months! he was ma first as well.. :angel:
is this girl ur friend by ne chance?
My opinion of the girl is irrelevent. The boy however thats statutory rape your talking about!
Maybe he was a little "easy" too?
Thats just amazingly sad. Why are there so many idiots about now?
Oh, and for the girl, depends on her reasons for me.
ANYWAY, sorry, more on subject, yes although I have nothing to say on the underage sex thing - each to their own. I started having sex when I was 15 and it is not something I've come to regret as at the time I was in a lovin, long term relationship, I felt ready etc...between my previous bf and my current bf, very close to getting with the current I had a dumb sexual thing with someone, which I regret now, and it was an incredibly short space of time - having 3 sexual partners by the time I'm 17 feels like a lot...it's how you see yourself. I'm not a slag, I learn from my mistakes and also recognise when I buggered up...but I'm not a slag...I'm a human who enjoys sex and is learning the benefits of having it in the right circumstance and for the right reason.
It slightly jumps out to me that the bf thought she might be easy...because that to me doesn't spell out a lot of trust if he's worried she might be a little easy after being with 2 blokes. He got with her, considering her easy...doesn't say a lot to me in the way of being with her for the right reasons, though apologies if I've read that wrong. I certainly kicked up dust about being called easy by that guy that liked me...cause obviously the double standards aren't something I take from anyone and your friend shouldn't be made to feel like everyone perceives her as easy and it's obviously making her think "Well...am I really a bad person for sleeping with 2 people?"...assure her, she's really not..!
Malt xxx
I'd think the bloke was a cock. Labelling some underage man whore a stud certainly isn't my attitude.
I wish more people held your attitude.