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should i be more outgoing to this person?
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i picked up signals from this girl a while ago... but i had to b 100% sure that she was interested.. bcuz she did not want to date this guy.. who even myself as a guy thot he was really dateable.. and she is not desparate at all.. and shes really attractive.. so i thot it was too good to b true.. so i stall from approaching her..
so recently i just messeged her on AIM... and she was really happy the nxt day at school.. she was all telling her friends..... but when i talk to her online.. she doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me... so yeah im confused.. so i be more outgoing with her at school.. the only thing holding me back is that she might be uncomfortable and i will make a fool outta myself..
andd i appreciate all responses.. :] .. u guys are like ppl i can talk to where i can spill my heart out without worries...
so recently i just messeged her on AIM... and she was really happy the nxt day at school.. she was all telling her friends..... but when i talk to her online.. she doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me... so yeah im confused.. so i be more outgoing with her at school.. the only thing holding me back is that she might be uncomfortable and i will make a fool outta myself..
andd i appreciate all responses.. :] .. u guys are like ppl i can talk to where i can spill my heart out without worries...
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Maybe when you talk to her online she has a hard time understanding the incoherent text garbage you use? I don't want to read it either.
being this or that or purple with spots on won't acheive anything.ONLY being yourself.
Word! Thats a real put off for me if someone talks incoherently as shit, it makes it impossible to take them seriously. If you want her, you have to talk her language.
I suggest taking a course in English.
How do we know this girl is in fact English? :chin:
Ok.. A course in a Language that isn't dimwit.
Why would you use ~ instead of a full stop? We have a convention on this within the English language.
When I start teaching I won't expect to be given work in text speak with 'inventive' punctuation. Such work shall automatically gain a mark of zero. How naive am I on this one?
Abreviated writing does not give any dis credit to what the person is saying so why bother analysing it all the time!
I for one have nothing else to say on this as i have never suffered this experience because i just say whats on my mind and think about the consequences later.
Sorry to be a interuption to your thread joey, but i hope it goes ok for your.
and i thanj you, im here all week
Language is relevant to every thread on an internet messageboard. It's the medium by which we communicate.
On subject : as others have said - don't change yourself to go after a girl. Messaging is a different medium to interpret as things like smilies, leaving xxx's at the end of a message can be read wrong. A person who doesn't seem as interested on the net mayb be leaving the computer, working on something else, not used to using a keyboad and typing slow replies...loads of things. Speak to her face to face about it if you're unsure as to whether she properly likes you, as it's the only way you'll truely find out. She seems chuffed she has your attention though by the looks of it
Malt xxx
though i can see the point of people getting annoyed with your text talk