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Ex's, friends and short skirts.
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Guess this could've gone in sex or relationships, but it involves both.
So, my ex dumped me 3 days before Valentine's day. Really, really sucked. Very heartbroken, know there's no way to get him back, trying to accept it.
I'm still feeling pretty damned awful about it, in a sort of "I hate myself and want to die" way, but I'll deal.
But male friends have come crawling up out of the woodwork, and all of a sudden they're all proclaiming undying love.
And I dunno what to do.
I want to go have lots of casual sex, but not with them, because it will totally screw up friendships.
But two of them I've had major things for in the past, one I kinda do, and the other I've always held a little flame for.
...so do I satisfy our sexual urges, or try to not and keep friendships going?
It bugs me too that they only notice I'm a girl when I step out of jeans and a tee shirt once a month, and wear a skirt or something. Like I don't have breasts the rest of the time.
So, my ex dumped me 3 days before Valentine's day. Really, really sucked. Very heartbroken, know there's no way to get him back, trying to accept it.
I'm still feeling pretty damned awful about it, in a sort of "I hate myself and want to die" way, but I'll deal.
But male friends have come crawling up out of the woodwork, and all of a sudden they're all proclaiming undying love.
And I dunno what to do.
I want to go have lots of casual sex, but not with them, because it will totally screw up friendships.
But two of them I've had major things for in the past, one I kinda do, and the other I've always held a little flame for.
...so do I satisfy our sexual urges, or try to not and keep friendships going?
It bugs me too that they only notice I'm a girl when I step out of jeans and a tee shirt once a month, and wear a skirt or something. Like I don't have breasts the rest of the time.
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