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Yeah. I'm 17, and I do have a girlfriend (she's 17 too). Yes, we care very much for each other, etc. She's actually the second girlfriend I've had in the past couple of years. I find her extraordinarily attractive, no problems there.
Problem is, though, I'm finding that I'm becoming increasingly attracted to the younger girls. I'm finding that in school I often realize I'm like staring at some young girl (~grade 9ish). Smaller is just so much better.
And as it happens, both my girlfriends have been on the small side in every way. go me.
what do you guys think? am I a freak? feel the same? girls, what do you think? :P
Problem is, though, I'm finding that I'm becoming increasingly attracted to the younger girls. I'm finding that in school I often realize I'm like staring at some young girl (~grade 9ish). Smaller is just so much better.
And as it happens, both my girlfriends have been on the small side in every way. go me.
what do you guys think? am I a freak? feel the same? girls, what do you think? :P
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I think being sexually attracted to young girls is paedophilic.
yeh thats wat i was thinking i just didnt wanna say it lol i really think its grose
thats only 3 years diffrence, and the age diffrence between me and my girlfriend is 3 years, so i wouldn't call it paedophilic at all.
Plus it would depend on if you are finding them pretty, good lookin or what ever thats just nothing...its when you find yourself going, "corr i wanna shag them senseless" thats when ya need to be re thinking whats goin on.
But Ya, i wouldnt say its a bad thing, if they are 14...anything younger then i might agree with "girl with sharp teeth"
Still, if there's grass on the pitch you can play cricket.
He's quite entitled to look at the younger girls, he just can't have sex with them.
not really sure what you mean about them being smaller though- if u prefer your girls a bit undeveloped rather than just petite then thats a bit wrong.
Firstly I was asked for my opinion.
Secondly, teenagers change massively in just a few years, both physically and mentally. There's a huge difference between a 14 year old and a 17 year old. Someone who is almost an adult and someone who is only just leaving childhood. I think regularly finding girls that young sexually attractive is disturbing and so does the law so saying people are too quick to judge is rather stupid.
Thinking it is paedophilic for him to be attracted to a girl that is only 3 years younger than him is unfair. It is common for young girls to be going out with older guys round that age group.
Just seems to me that people can't make their mind on how old, is old.
It's more rather an issue if it "under developed" that you are finding atrractive at your age. I mean at 17 it's not such I big deal because you are still developing yourself, but if it's somthing that persists you have an issue :no:
As for the age debate, it;s not so much an issue of age (I've seen some very developed 14 years olds you would swear were 16-21) but rather an issue of maturity. Especially in the teen years. Maturity levels are what differ even more the sexual/body development druing these years.
A larger gap of age might be appropiate depening if the younger of the two is more mature for their age or if the older is less mature for their, or both. It's often why the male in a relationship is the older. Since 9 times outta ten girls mature more quickly during the teen years
It then becomes more an issue of practicality as the two will often be at very different stages in their lives.
I completely agree. My ex is 17 and his gf is 14 (she also happens to be his best mates little sister :yuck: ) and I find it wrong in my opinion. Before they were going out he used to say that her and all her friends were so immature and how could you ever fancy someone who's 13 and be sexually involved with someone who aint hardly developed yet (they were at the time, and he was 17) but now he's going out with one of them and is having sex with her. I do think it's abit odd in my opinion but each to their own I guess.
Over 16 is kinda open to anyone as long as shes sure of what she wants but still at over 16 people are all so different in their levels of maturity and experience so you have to make a sensible judgement.
Provided that you don't have sex, and that means any form of sex, not just the Bill Clinton definition then this shouldn't be a real problem. But if you are thinking in sexual terms, and acting on it then you are breaking the law, and I personally wouldn't sehd a tear from any 17-y-o in that position who was banged up...
Fuck off. You were asked for your opinion were you? Well, guess what, my opinion is that your opinion is scarmongering bandwagon bullshit. Don't ever call me stupid. You know fuck all about this guy and you're as good as calling him a paedophile. Fuck me I hope you don't ever end up on a jury, the accused would have no chance.
First post, last line: what do you guys think?
Learn to read, bozo.
Calm down dear, its a website.
cuz if its physical, newsflash, older girls can be small too .lol
and if it is an age thing, be careful, i assume your from the states (grade 9ish and so on) so i dont know the law or anything but im thinking that underage action is just as punishable as it is here. So....think about your motivations, and i reckon you can figure out if your a sicko or not from there.
Peace
I think it isnt sick at all I am 15 and my bf is 18 which is the same age diffecrence as your ex and i also think that you aught to keep ya fucking mouth shut as if you fell in love with someone and he wwas 3 years older than you then it wouldnt mean anything age is just a number that SOUNDS bad if they love eachother theres fuck all wrong with it
by the way im in quite a bad mood because of someone in my family so lol dont mean to sound a bitch but then again YOU FUCKING DESERVE IT
Well aren't you a charmer.