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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
B4 i started goin out wit my bf, he used to have his m8s round for big smoke ups all the time. then he stopped doin it, as he was spending more time wit me. (he still does hash loads) but all of his mates r now goin on to coke, then on to pills, as they say the effects of hash r crap now. i am worried as they keep tryin to get my bf to do it. and i have seen these boys go down hill in a big way, (i dont have a prob wit drugs it is an individual thing if u wanna do it), but my bf doesnt wanna do it. but they r always tryin to make him, and they r messed up now as the drugs have taken over their lifes. and my bf gets hooked easily and i dont want that to happen to him. ne one got something that i can say to him to make him c that him not doin it is better, then doin it?? (i mean coke + pills)


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well the fact that they think the weed is crap is because they constantly smoke it!! they need breaks from that to get its good feeling back!!

    Coke is expensive, unless u got loads of muny!! Its £50 (in the UK) for a gram and if some1 got into a habit of doing coke alot then it will cost them ALOT!!

    If he started to do pills if i were u i wouldnt worry too much. Pills are not physically addictive and are pretty much harmless.

    The chances of him taking a pill and it killing him are very small, just as the chances of him taking coke and dying are very small too.

    If u cain pills week in week out for over a year ur head will be a lil screwed up but thats nuthing a 6 month break wont cure.
    The only downside to pills ive noticed from people who stop taking pills is depression. It doesnt happen to all people but it does happen to some. Depression is not a nice thing to have <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I think ur b/f m8s look like they have gone downhill because they have started to do these new drugs and they r soooo much fun for them they dont really give a shite bout anything else. After a few months the effects of these drugs will effect them less and they will start to take their heads out of the clouds.

    If ur b/f doesnt want to do them, tell him not to be with his m8s when they are gettin fucked, that way he wont be too tempted.
    Hope ive helped a lil. Its really down to him, if he has the will power to say no!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers mate!

    He says he doesnt realy wanna b wit them wen they r doing pills and shit, as he says he doesnt like it!!

    Thx for the advice
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't worry too much, if your boyfriend doesn't want to do them and he's got you there to keep him thinking logically then he'll be fine, as for his friends going down hill, I think everybody that "discovers" drugs has their year where all they do is cain it. it's just to get it out of your system and try it all, they'll grow out of it lol <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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