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Please help a newbie on the dating scene
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I'm nearly 20 and have just split up with my first boyfriend after 3 years. I'm at uni, but have never been on the dating scene before and haven't a clue how to go about meeting new guys, etc. I don't understand how people just go up to attractive people in clubs and "pull them". Besides, I would to get some nice dates of this, not just some random, drunken snogs...
Help!!!
Help!!!
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Bars are slightly better, though there is the drunken element to deal with.
I would suggest you join a class or two, learn to salsa or paint or something.
That way you will meet people and be able to talk to them.
Canterbury uni has fist fulls of clubs, societies etc. I'm sure there is one to your taste.
Plus you could always go to the club there (whats it called again), God thats a shite hole, all those stairs, its a death trap.
It's weird, coz with my relationship went all my confidence. I suddenly feel unattractive and fat again, like I did before I met my boyfriend.
Just go out to have a good nite and a laugh!
Lots of blokes are attracted to girls who are happy and smiling and having a good time.
Not the best place to meet a potential bf, but always good for a few random nites lol
Dont feel bad about yourself! You will learn to feel good about yourself. Until you love yourself, its hard for someone else to.
Anyway, as others have said, dont go out looking as such, just go out to enjoy yourself, join a few societies and clubs about campus. Kent uni is bloody massive I'm sure there is loads going on.