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fuckbuddies and valentines...
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So... bit of a dilemma.
I've got a fuck buddy, who's a very close friend of mine, and Valentine's is coming up. We spend ALL our time together, we're practically in a relationship only not, and i don't know what to do about Valentine's day. Do i ignore it? Or do i give him a jokey card/present?!
I've got a fuck buddy, who's a very close friend of mine, and Valentine's is coming up. We spend ALL our time together, we're practically in a relationship only not, and i don't know what to do about Valentine's day. Do i ignore it? Or do i give him a jokey card/present?!
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You could send him a card as he is as you say
a very close friend of mine
However, the idea of a fuck buddy is not a relationship, just sex. You start sending him silk boxer shorts with hearts on them, and before too long who knows where it'll end up.
Send a card if you like (or ignore it completely, what have you done in the past?)
But I wouldn't treat him as your boyfriend at all... ...can send mixed signals...
Raaaar. It's a complicated situation, and i suppose fuck buddy is the wrong phrase to use in a way. It's a very good friend of mine who i have sex with. We've had conversations before in the past about it becoming a relationship, but at the end of the day, it's not what either of us want - i got out of a big relationship last year and he's very anti-relationships generally, so we're just toddling along as we are, which is great for both of us. The problem is, practically everyone in our group of friends are in relationships so V-day this year is quite a big deal for everyone except us.
I did find a card which said 'valentine - i'm not sure i want to be tied down...' and on the inside it said 'tied up, now that's a different matter entirely!' which would have been ideal, but as he and i were out shopping together at the time and i showed it to him, might be a bit of a giveaway!
Blah. I might just not go out at all on v-day, just stay at home eating ice cream and watching films. That'd solve the problem
LMAO! Classic.
At the end of the day, prepare yourself for both scenarios. Besides, who wouldn't appreciate sex as a present?! :thumb:
tricky situation!
And for valentines day couples often do something "new" in bed lol
Just do what you think will make you feel good, after all, its all about you if you are not together!
Enjoy x