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scared for my friend

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
my ex can't climax from sex with protection and me and him ended up finishing because he found that he could not climax even using featherlite condoms. he had unprotected sex with someone and could climax perfectly well. now he has a new girlfriend which is a good friend of mine, and he wants her to have unprotected sex with him but she doesn't know but i think she wants to, how can i tell her not too she won't listen please help and also do you think my ex has some sort of medical problem, thanx for helping

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sex_kitten

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she has any sense she should know the dangers of unprotected sex! Does she want a kid??
    Condoms reduce sensation for some guys, might be why ur ex couldn't climax whilst wearing one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello "biddle" girl,as SeaShihtzu'says, your mate might be in for a lot of hassel if her b/f wants sex without a condom. I suppose evry boys diferent but ive never found any problems with using them-just a bit messy taking them off.Why cant he have sex with her wearing one,at least your mate will enjoy it,and if he cant reach a climax then finish of by "hand"!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Suppose I can kind of see the guys point and can understand him wanting to have sex without a condom BUT would strongly advise your mate to stick to her guns and NOT do it. In the long run, there's the risk of pregnancy, not to mention large amounts of STD's.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if this really is a problem in their relationship has she considered using a cap? ive never used one and dont really know much about them but its worth suggesting it to her
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Also"Biddle" girl,theres a saying in the bible that says "am i my brothers keeper" which means YOU are not responsible for your mate and b/fs actions.so cooooooool out,if you see what i mean.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can understand whys shes worried though i wouldnt like it if one of my mates got pregnant or caught an sti i would be worried about them. Maybe you could persuade her to go on the pill??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    y is ur mate with ur X anyway..?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    UM I THINK U SHOULD TELL THEM SAY THAT U SAYING IT CUZ UR WORRYED AND TO TAKE THE PILL SHE WILL RESPECT U EVEN IF SHE DONT LISTEN <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> null[EMAIL]null[/EMAIL]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ugh, stop shouting. Take that caps look off.
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    http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/rubbish_excuses_for_not_wearing_a_condom.html
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he wants sex then he has to live with the fact he has to wear a condom, his excuse is lame, if he wants an orgasm he should keep trying and stop being a selfish pikey.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hes just trying it on, she should stick to her guns, i mean if hes going around having sex without a condom you dont know what hes caught, he could have aids.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx you guys, that was really helpful. i spoke to her and she has agreed to stick to her guns and she is ok about it and so is her boyf.so thanx for all your help. she is going with my ex becasuewe hate each other <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sex_kitten76:
    <STRONG>thanx you guys, that was really helpful. i spoke to her and she has agreed to stick to her guns and she is ok about it and so is her boyf.so thanx for all your help. she is going with my ex becasuewe hate each other <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    ummm this maybe because im confused but you make it sound like that because you hate your ex your mate is going out with him <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shit excuse for not wearing a condom, but if he (and she) has been tested for STIs, and they trust each other, it wopuld be ok for her to have sex without a condom, provided she was on the pill.
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