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AIDS test bfore sex ??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Just a q:

Do u guys think that it is best to get ur bf or gf to have a AIDS test bfore u have sex with em ?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you should. Even if you know this person really well, they won't always tell you the truth about their sex life. Get tested to be safe.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a tricky one. I spose it's best though as the person you are gonna have sex with may not even realise they have it.

    Has anyone ever got there boyf/girf to have one then???

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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,284 Skive's The Limit
    How refreshing to have a post in the sex forum thats both original and intelligent <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It is obviously a good idea to have the test done before having sex, but it's not always gonna be that practical. The sex has too be planned well before hand so none of this spur of the moment shit, and not so exciteing.
    A weekend wasted, is not a wasted weekend! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/nogood.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't forget it can take 6 months for the virus to show up, so wait 6 months, then get the test
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Carriage Return:
    don't forget it can take 6 months for the virus to show up, so wait 6 months, then get the test

    6 months from when? We're assuming this if someone contracted the disease while you knew them, or if they came into something that could possibly infect them. What about someone u haven't been going out with for very long? I think that is the general jist of the point.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    6 months from when?


    6 months from when you have sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Genie:
    6 months from when you have sex.


    no, i mean what if the girl has had sex before? how do you know what the time period is?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:

    no, i mean what if the girl has had sex before? how do you know what the time period is?
    well take it from 6 months since you properly met, that way they shouldn't have had sex in that time period.....if they have they've cheated and aren't worth it!

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