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Nothing to live for anymore

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Richeh
    2moro's goal is to have them all sent out, or as many as possible. Not a few days, 2moro!
    Send them all out? Well, how many should I print out?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    Send them all out? Well, how many should I print out?

    How many firms do you have in mind you want to apply to?

    I roughly took a guess and printed out 15 copies to start with then went up to the local shopping centre and just handed one into all the place i wanted to work.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you believe something isnt going to work out, no amount of help here is going work because you're determined to not let it. You've taken a firm negative view and until you start thinking youve got a chance-we're wasting our time.(well ive not really help, but everyone else).

    You have to start with small steps. Stop panicking over the job, uni, friends, a life etc etc. You'll never get anywhere being overwhelmed by everything you feel you have to do. Take one step at a time. The job. Just that one thing. Once you do that first thing, you'll have the confidence and mroe motivation to do something else, eg, apply to uni, go out and do things etc, plus youll have a reason to get up each day instead of the same old and driving yourself mad.

    Its no wonder you feel you're losing you grip on reality when you're not really in reality because youve isolated yourself to that bubble.
    Im the same, here safe in a bubble as you put it, but 5 days a week i leave it for the majority of the day(got to work), then i return to it, back to that safe place in the evening. I fucking hate it but i think going off sick or leaving it will make it even harder for me to get better.

    Stop being so defeatest.

    CV's are total bullshit. make it up. you got no hobbies?? make them up. say you like football, socialising, music, computers. whos going to know?.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Richeh
    How many firms do you have in mind you want to apply to?
    No specific number. I'll take that advice though and print out 15 of them initially.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    No specific number. I'll take that advice though and print out 15 of them initially.

    If 15 isnt enough you can always print off more and take them back. I find phoning places quite hard sometimes so depending on how i feel i will post my cv to places, or go to the local store.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    Send them all out? Well, how many should I print out?
    aaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggghhhhhhhhhh!
    for fucks sake star ...do you need to ask which leg to put forward first when you walk ...do you need to be told to breath out as well as in?
    for fucks sake man!!!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for the first time ever SG ...i'm ignoring the pm you just sent me.
    it needs discussing in the iopen. you need to stop hiding.
    and it realy is getting pathetic when you have to start asking how many should you print ...fucking get up ...grow up ...make some moves.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FALLENANGEL84: Thank you, I feel I'm finally starting to make some progress here. I agree CV's is total bullshit. Mine certainly appears to be. As for hobbies, music and computers are ones that I'll include. Thanks for what seemed like suggestions.

    RICHEH: Thank you, Richeh. I'll do that as soon as I possibly can.

    MORROCAN ROLL: I do realise that I'm extraordinarily difficult to help. I agree with you. If you want to discuss this, I'm here.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    MORROCAN ROLL: I do realise that I'm extraordinarily difficult to help. I agree with you. If you want to discuss this, I'm here.
    SG ...when you have to be told to do a cv then told how to do it ...then you ask how many should you print out ...it realy is getting pathetic ...do you have someone to wipe your arse for you at home ...?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Stargalaxy, the whole point is to talk yourself up, doesnt matter if what you put is utter bullshit ( within reason of course ;) ) You could be applying for ajob along with 5 other people, you have to make your cv stand out so they think to themselves "hmm this one sounds good get them in for an interview".
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MORROCAN ROLL: If you're going to be like that, I'm not going to respond. I agree that I've asked maybe too many questions regarding this CV, but have you ever had any problems making yours? But I respect the position that you're taking on this.

    RICHEH: Thank you for your help. If you want, I'll send you a copy of my CV so you can have a look at it for yourself.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    MORROCAN ROLL: If you're going to be like that, I'm not going to respond.
    proves a point in a way ... you will spend all day being fawned over ...being the centre of so much attention and concern but ...when the going gets tough ...you hide away.
    you have had all the answers that are available in this world it would seem to me ...then you come back and aske for them all again ...and again.
    at twenty years old ..."how many should i print" ...come on man!
    you will be telling us next that you are literaly incapable of standing on your own two feet ...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by morrocan roll
    proves a point in a way ... you will spend all day being fawned over ...being the centre of so much attention and concern but ...when the going gets tough ...you hide away. you have had all the answers that are available in this world it would seem to me ...then you come back and aske for them all again ...and again.
    You're right.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    You're right.

    ...That's it?

    You state the obvious ALL the time. Of course he's right, don't be so bloody vague..What are you gonna do about it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    You state the obvious ALL the time. Of course he's right, don't be so bloody vague..What are you gonna do about it?
    Well, I'll get a job then. And apply to uni while I'm at that. Thank you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lukesh
    come on matey... i want to see progress now :)
    Keep talking to me on MSN, then. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK, here's what I'm going to do. I've finished putting together my CV by now, it's slightly better than it was. I'll print a bundle of those out, I'll get into town tomorrow and give them to anyone who I'm even remotely interested in working for. Though I know I can't afford to be picky. Lukesh, Richeh, Kermit and Franki-Chicken have been an extremely good help in guiding me through this process.

    Next, I intend to apply for university. I'm not decided exactly as to what to do, but areas that have me interested so far are Psychology, English and Social Studies. In terms of a career, I'm still not sure, but at least I'm starting to get some ideas. Special thanks to Lukesh for helping me with this particular one.

    Finally for now, I'm hoping that by applying for a job and such, I might be able to find some friends in the process and thus won't be winding you people up so often. (no doubt you'll be pleased to hear that, fiend_85 :p ) It seems I've managed to muster up a positive attitude to this. Thanks to Lukesh and Lizzy for being there for me, and thank you to all contributors to this thread. All very interesting. Thank you. :)

    Stargalaxy
    xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lukesh
    danny - my pleasure entirely. i love helping you as i know you can do it. you are strong inside. you can and will get through this. i promise to help you all the way!!! i am proud of your progress!!
    Thank you Luke. Your persistence and positive attitude is something I greatly admire. To quote a certain politician, "thank you for coming friend". :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    OK, here's what I'm going to do. I've finished putting together my CV by now, it's slightly better than it was. I'll print a bundle of those out, I'll get into town tomorrow and give them to anyone who I'm even remotely interested in working for. Though I know I can't afford to be picky. Lukesh, Richeh, Kermit and Franki-Chicken have been an extremely good help in guiding me through this process.

    Next, I intend to apply for university. I'm not decided exactly as to what to do, but areas that have me interested so far are Psychology, English and Social Studies. In terms of a career, I'm still not sure, but at least I'm starting to get some ideas. Special thanks to Lukesh for helping me with this particular one.

    Finally for now, I'm hoping that by applying for a job and such, I might be able to find some friends in the process and thus won't be winding you people up so often. (no doubt you'll be pleased to hear that, fiend_85 :p ) It seems I've managed to muster up a positive attitude to this. Thanks to Lukesh and Lizzy for being there for me, and thank you to all contributors to this thread. All very interesting. Thank you. :)

    Stargalaxy
    xxx
    you'll be able to tell us all about it tomorrow then!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by morrocan roll
    you'll be able to tell us all about it tomorrow then!
    Yes, I'll let you know how I got on sometime tomorrow. Chances are I'll be off to town in the morning, and come back in the afternoon to let you know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    GIRL_GUNNER: I blame only myself for my problems. I am entirely to blame.

    :banghead: did you read any of the other stuff I wrote?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK, let me look at that again:
    Originally posted by Girl_gunner from page 10:
    Your whole life is ahead of you. The obstacles you are facing you can overcome. It is difficult, but you can get through it. Using myself as an example I've had numerous moments of "I've had enough" etc and numerous people have told me the same thing numerous times and its taken me such a long time for it to sink in. But I now understand that it's all very well blaming other people or circumstance but the only person who's going to sort it out is you.
    I haven't come to a much different conclusion. Uitimately, I am the person who's to blame for my own problems.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    OK, let me look at that again:
    I haven't come to a much different conclusion. Uitimately, I am the person who's to blame for my own problems.

    Less of the negative " i'm to blame for my own problems" more of the positive " I'm going to change my life for the better and be happy" Dammit stick to it dude :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Richeh
    Less of the negative " i'm to blame for my own problems" more of the positive " I'm going to change my life for the better and be happy" Dammit stick to it dude :p
    It would be easy to blame others for my own problems. So, I will not do it. The way I see it, I am to blame for my own problems, so as I got myself into it, I'll have to get myself out of it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    It would be easy to blame others for my own problems. So, I will not do it. The way I see it, I am to blame for my own problems, so as I got myself into it, I'll have to get myself out of it.
    Less of the negative more of the positive
    ;)

    Stop thinking about who's to blame, or blaming yourself right now!

    2005 is going to be a good year for you, you'll damn well make sure it is because we're all trying to help you on here :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Richeh
    2005 is going to be a good year for you, you'll damn well make sure it is because we're all trying to help you on here :p
    With your help, (oh, and with that of the wonderful Lizzy!) I think I can do it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok i wasn't meaning to be negative if thats how i came across :blush: what I'm trying to say is stop blaming yourself, sometimes things just turn out badly. I was trying to say you can turn it around. From what I've read you posting on here it's clear you're a capable person, just start exercising it :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl_gunner
    From what I've read you posting on here it's clear you're a capable person...
    :eek2: You can tell that just from reading a few choice posts that I've made? How peculiar.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    a few choice posts
    look at your post count.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl_gunner
    look at your post count.
    :rolleyes: What about my post count? Not all of my roughly 3970 posts are of the same calibre.
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