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Girls and bi-sexual boys?
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Just wondering.
If a guy that you wre involved with told you a few months down the line that he was bisexual, would you be turned off? What would your reaction be?
Or would it just depend?
If a guy that you wre involved with told you a few months down the line that he was bisexual, would you be turned off? What would your reaction be?
Or would it just depend?
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I spose it's the fear of; being cheated on by, with his boyfriend when I'm his girlfriend. And (the controversial one...) the safety aspect. I guess I'd be fairly worried about his sexual past.. whether he's been having safe sex with both sexes and had been tested. I'm not saying all bi-sexual people are promiscuous, but by having sexual relationships with both sexes you'd be increasing the risks of STI's.
So, in short, lol. I'd be somewhat worried...
Ilora x
My theory is that if you're with somebody, then you're with somebody. I don't think being bi would necessarily make somebody any more likely to cheat than somebody who's 100% straight. I think it's more to do with having restraint and having consideration for people's feelings, rather than having more choice or whatever.
If I was engaged or married to a female, for all intents and purpouses I'd be straight because I wouldn't be going out kissing anybody else anyway, so it'd be a non-issue?
I can see how having a casual/open relationship with a bi guy could be difficult, but surely there's much more important things in a boy than who he's been with before you?
I sort of think I've been a bit naive, since I've thought of myself as liking both guys and girls, I've not really had an especially serious relationship so it's not really come up.
I wouldn't ever really have a proper emotional relationship with a bloke for my own reasosn, but I am physically attracted and I've had "encounters".
It's just the issue of bringing it up when I do come to having my next relationship. I'm guessing that the right girl for me wouldn't have a problem with it (or would learn to deal with it), but then how do you bring these things up?
I'm probably over analysing as usual.
I don't understand why it would bother anyone really. You know the person pretty well by then, obviously it would be a bit of a shock that you didn't know that, but you do know what kind of person they are, and whether they'd be sensible about sex etc so surely you'd have nothing to worry about.
Don't bring it up unless you feel you should. It's just one of those sexual history things. It depends on the person really. If she wants to know, tell her, but if she loves you I suspect she wouldn't take it any differently than you sleeping with other women, probably. It's never something we like addressing with someone we share out lives with, we'd always rather they'd just been ours.
I dont see the problem with it, but i know some girls do.
Don't know why it matters to be honest.
sorry
Lol the custom status should have been a give away.:o
Lesbian, Male, what's the differene?!
I couldn't agree more.
Personally I would like to know that the person I was seeing was bi-sexual before things got serious, but if I liked the person it wouldn't bother me. Well, I say that now... perhaps it would if it ever actually happened, I can't really say because it hasn't happened yet.
Right now though I'd be happy to receive attention from a bi-sexual gorilla.
Just wanted to clarify in case somebody understood my previous reply wrong.
Peace
Well, i would ask him if he wouldnt mind to bring another bi friend for a menage:P
Now you have me worried. Cause I haven't told my boyfriend about my sexuality/past. I mean we've only gotten together recently. You think I should tell him?!!
xXx
hahahhaha have i told you that i love you?!
bisexual men don't turn me off.. i don't really care about it if i like him, and he likes me.. and i don't see why anyone should care
yes, but you can tell me again if you like.
Sorry...i didnt mean to worry you oopsy. hehe. Alls i meant was that, in my case, me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months now.....so....finding out now would feel like it had been kept from me...see?
Its up to you if you wanna tell him....for a start do you think he'd be bothered by it? Dont make a big deal of it by any means...i mean in the end, regardless of sexuality, your with him right...?
Sorry for worrying you ....
Peace
Are we? what makes you think that ?
Peace
Malt mUnk xxx:D