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Bulimia

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I really dont know what to do. About a year and a half ago i developed Bulimia. I was feeling really depressed and had a low self esteem, i thought i was fat even though i am a size 8-10. I just started vomiting after eating and it just became a habit. It was so easy because i could eat what i want and not gain weight. I eventually managed to 'get rid' of the bulimia and the depression. However, now the bulimia has come back, cos i am stressing over my weight, what with it being summer holiday time soon. I mean i know im not fat (im still 8-10 and petite) but im my head i have to be thiner.

Im beginning to get really painful stomach cramps and my back sometimes hurts. Im also worried cos im on the pill. I really want to stop, only my boyfriend knows about it and im scared to go to the doctors. I really dont know what to do. help!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You've already made the first and most important step by and asking for advice on here, well done <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; !

    Although it will be hard, please go and see a doctor, he or she will be sympathetic and understanding...thats why they became doctors, to help people like you and me. They wont hospitalise you, or commit u to a mental hospital, or go tell your family....they'll probably just ask u if everythings ok, if anythings bothering u. You may be asked to see a counsellor or dietician.

    And you'll feel so much better afterwards having talked to someone who is non-judgemental and calm, and who *wont* tell u to stop being silly etc.

    Talk to a family friend or close relative?

    Eating disorders are often linked to other problems that the sufferer may have, even though he or she believes it to be caused by weight worries. Is everything ok at home? With your friends/partner? At school/college/work? Basically is anything bothering u?

    Dont put up with it as u dont have to!

    Off to drown my sorrows now over LOTS of Carling Premier Lager LAGER LAGER LAGER <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; !!

    Best 'o luck <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.

    jeez my spelling/grammar is orful lol !!


    [This message has been edited by Sid (edited 08-04-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi thanx 4 replying <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; i guess im mega stressed at the moment, i got my a'levels in about 8 weeks n i suppose everything is getting on top of me! I'll probably go see a doctor.

    Im a natural born worrier and i think thats half of my problem!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We have some information here that you may find useful: http://www.thesite.org/health/wellbeing/anorexia_and_bulimia_the_facts.html

    There is a number at the bottom of the page that you can call to get lots of good advice and support.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx 4 that, i've just read it. How longs this site been running cos every1 knows each other and its really cool, but i've only just found it and dont know ne1 <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Luv Jodie
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    Thanx 4 that, i've just read it. How longs this site been running cos every1 knows each other and its really cool, but i've only just found it and dont know ne1 <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Luv Jodie

    Im not sure how long thesites been running but its very friendly here and u will get to no everyone soon, dont worry bout that. Ive had anorexia and bulimia in the past and even though u learn ways to deal with it its always there with u. U need to go and see someone about this, just realising u have a problem is the first step. U can talk to us lot on here about any of your stuff, u will get some great advice and make some great friends. Take care and nice to meet u <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    Thanx 4 that, i've just read it. How longs this site been running cos every1 knows each other and its really cool, but i've only just found it and dont know ne1 <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Luv Jodie

    Been up since about hte start of 2000, i think, but has grown a lot recently.

    We know each other cos we chat a lot on Yahoo - have u got yahoo or msn? cos a lot of the regulars are on yahoo at one time or another (especially very late at night, but that's another story *yawn*)

    see u there then?

    And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi, yeah i go on yahoo sometimes, my nick is: Little_Ms_Hyper. I feel a bit better at the moment cos things in my life arnt too bad. I had a rough patch wiv my b/f but thats sorted and ive actually started to revise properly for my A'levels which is amazing! Plus the summer is on its way n im always mega happy if its sunny <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Lolly your right eating disorders never really go away. I mean you think you have gotten rid of them and then somthing happens in your life and you get bad again. Neway thanx nice people <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Ciao bella -x-
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    Hi, yeah i go on yahoo sometimes, my nick is: Little_Ms_Hyper. I feel a bit better at the moment cos things in my life arnt too bad. I had a rough patch wiv my b/f but thats sorted and ive actually started to revise properly for my A'levels which is amazing! Plus the summer is on its way n im always mega happy if its sunny <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    hi,i dont think i have spoken to u b4 have i?!!
    i understand u totally.
    im bulimic.it started a couple of years ago,i got ill,lost loadsa weight and wanted to stay that way.i have never been fat.size 8 at the most.i got to the point where even size 6 chlothes were hanging off me.its scary when i look back.
    my parents found out abouit it.it didnt help,because they didnt understand.they told me i was stupid and thick.my mates were the ones that have stuck by me.
    sometimes i think my life is gr8,i can move on,but then something happens that throws u off course,and it takes u ages to get back on ur feet,its like an everlasting battle,u dont know when its going to end,wether it will be victory or defeat.it only takes a small thing to put u back where u started.
    at the mo,im doing ok,stress is starting to get 2 me now tho,gcse's, and my parents nagging at me to revise,but i have a great bf,he doesnt know,but he makes me happy,and loads of really supportive m8s.im just wieghting to see what the future brings.

    as for the stomach aches,thats because ur ruining the lining of ur stomach.its vvvv.dangerouse, so u might need to get checked out.i get severe sore throats,and my fingers also swell up,i dont know if u experience this.

    at the moment i think im of healthy weight,altho i never really did it coz i thought i was fat,i was just upset,felt usless and a waste of space,i wanted to make myself smaller,so i wouldnt waste as much space,that may sound pathetic,but its how i felt.im still only a size 6-8.im 5ft4 and weight just over 7 stone.some people take the piss out of me for being slim,and i just dont understand.
    well u can talk to me if u need me,
    loadsa lovexxxxxxxx

    Lolly your right eating disorders never really go away. I mean you think you have gotten rid of them and then somthing happens in your life and you get bad again. Neway thanx nice people <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Ciao bella -x-

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey

    It's comforting to know that other people understand what bulimia is like. I've only told my b/f n i dont think he really totally gets whats wrong with me. Now i sort of wish i hadnt told him cos i feel stupid and he keeps asking if its because of him, which it isnt. Its slightly getting better at the moment. Just silly things like i got my prom in a few months n keep thinkin oh u gotta n thinner blah blah. Ive also been goin the gym a lot.

    I know what u mean about ppl sayin stuff cos ur thin. They think that cos u r slim that u dont have ne problems and that you should feel 'lucky' cos u aint fat! When i was younger other kids used to say stuff cos i was thin and now im older u get women sayin stuff like ohh look at ur hips, u lucky thing etc etc

    Neway i hope you stay happy and healthy <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I have a sore throat at the mo but i dont think its from Bulimia lol <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Love Jodie
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    god i know,everyone at school says how lucky i am,but recently a few of the teachers have been askin me about my weight.sumtimes i wish i could say wots wrong,but i feel ashammed.u know wot i mean?i want help,but cant face recieving it???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know what u mean about being ashamed to seek help. I'm the same, thats why only one person knows. I dont want to go to my doctor because i know him too well, he knows all my family and i know its meant to be confidential and everything but i still couldnt trust him not to say nethin to my mum. I would also be really embarrassed to admit i had bulimia, its like a weakness and admitting you arnt 'normal' as such. Maybe that sounds silly!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it doesnt sound silly at all.
    i would never go to a docter,my dads a doctor and my mums a nurse,so most of the drs in the area no them!!!GREAT!!! but how about a counceller?they are very good, and u can talk to them in total confidence.they really cant tell ur parents.
    especially if ur over 16.how old are u?im only 15.i was 13 when it all started.

    its good that uv recognised that u have a problem,b4 its to late.you can sort it,but you have to have the will power.you just have to be strong.

    can you not talk to your mum????i know thats a stupid question,but she might be able to help u,u never know!!!!!!!or a sister???

    well u can always talk to me!!!
    good luck babes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    Hey

    It's comforting to know that other people understand what bulimia is like. I've only told my b/f n i dont think he really totally gets whats wrong with me. Now i sort of wish i hadnt told him cos i feel stupid and he keeps asking if its because of him, which it isnt. Its slightly getting better at the moment. Just silly things like i got my prom in a few months n keep thinkin oh u gotta n thinner blah blah. Ive also been goin the gym a lot.

    I know what u mean about ppl sayin stuff cos ur thin. They think that cos u r slim that u dont have ne problems and that you should feel 'lucky' cos u aint fat! When i was younger other kids used to say stuff cos i was thin and now im older u get women sayin stuff like ohh look at ur hips, u lucky thing etc etc

    Neway i hope you stay happy and healthy <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I have a sore throat at the mo but i dont think its from Bulimia lol <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Love Jodie

    Your wrong about the sore throat not being coz of Bulimia. The acid from your stomach not only rots your teeth but give u really sore throat...some more reasons to go and get it sorted out eh <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    I know what u mean about being ashamed to seek help. I'm the same, thats why only one person knows. I dont want to go to my doctor because i know him too well, he knows all my family and i know its meant to be confidential and everything but i still couldnt trust him not to say nethin to my mum. I would also be really embarrassed to admit i had bulimia, its like a weakness and admitting you arnt 'normal' as such. Maybe that sounds silly!

    U should definatly go to the docter. I no wat its like and u think they might tell your mum but there is no way they would do that I promise u. U aint weak admitting that u have Bulimia, by admitting u have a problem and by seeking help u r showing your real strength. It take a lot more to admit that to yourself than it does to just shrug the problem off. U just have to use the strength that u have to make yoursewlf sick and not eat and turn it around and use it to make yourself better...trust me on this one <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya

    Yeah im probably gonna go see a doctor. Its sort of getting better, less frequent anyway. Im trying to focus on revision and not on my body size! I havent been the gym this week n feel bad, still theres next week! How many calories does sex burn lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good question!but how many calories are there in cum?!?!!LOL! actually thats a good question,anybody know?!?!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah thats a good point <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I think it burns quite a few tho depends how fast n stuff i guess lol You might have to do it for ages to get a real benefit, but thats no hardship!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it should be made a nessesaty!go to the gym....can i have a shag please?i wanna burn sum calories!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by scaredycat!:
    good question!but how many calories are there in cum?!?!!LOL! actually thats a good question,anybody know?!?!

    I heard that it has the same calories as spinach

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmm so eating a plate of spinach is like eating a plate of cum theoretically speaking? <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    I heard that it has the same calories as spinach

    j9

    sex gets better and better dont it!! especially when you find out that cum is a health food...only the same as spinach..really????glad it dont taste the same!!actually...i wish it did,still be bad tho!!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha yeah go in2 the health food shop n buy a jar of cum......nah it isnt too tempting <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    Haha yeah go in2 the health food shop n buy a jar of cum......nah it isnt too tempting <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    you dont find that extremely appealing?

    Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards.


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    (Albert Einstein)
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by SusieLovesCalvin:
    you dont find that extremely appealing?


    i dont! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;



    Burn baby burn!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no,its more appealing if its fresh!lol!j/k!but i like oral tho,its fun!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    i dont! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;

    shame, i'm sure one of the lads around here'd of given you some home-made
    im kayleigh. im disgusting.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hehehehe no comment <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Burn baby burn!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I like oral, its just cum isnt my fave thing ever! Ohhh how did we get onto this topic lol
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by High_Angel:
    <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I like oral, its just cum isnt my fave thing ever! Ohhh how did we get onto this topic lol


    yeah ditto lol


    Burn baby burn!
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