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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
im turning into a massive blimp coz of this eating thing, i just want to be normal again <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

as i sed in the other thread, i almost didn't fit into my trousers today. it's getting really out of hand and making me feel really bad. <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; my ass is like the size of three jennifer lopez's put together. not good. im too scared to go on the scales coz i know its gonna make me feel really bad, i dont wanna know, i just want this to stop.

im only 5'1, i used to be about 10 stone then i lost 2, now i reckon its up to bout 9 1/2 again. bet ur picturing me now and thinking, god she must be big.

I don't know why i'm posting this, it's just like the other 1, i just wanted to say it.

There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did

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  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hey drifter dont worry about your weight so much, dont weigh yourself, i never do, i can tell ive put on some weight recently but i dont need a scales to tell me that. ive gone mad eating lately too, i just eat everything in sight as fast as possible, like ive not eaten for weeks or something! and all the time i just feel like eating, and so i know how you feel.

    the weight you described isnt big, from your pic you have nothing to worry about! i know things that everyone else cant see are always there to you, like i have a thign about my stomach and thighs and everyone else laughs at me, but to me its an issue.

    if you want to lose weight, try and eat more healthily instead of just eating crap (like i do!). try not to eat every time you just feel like it, chew some chewing gum or something, id say eat sweets instead but then your teeth would be the prob! if you dont want to eat excessive snacks and everything then you CAN stop, just tell yourself you DONT want the packet of crisps or the biscuit or something.

    im sure the problem is bigger in your own mind than in everyone else's though, its always the way. you just need to have more confidence in yourself, it doesnt matter what weight you are, its about the person inside. but the weight you described isnt even fat, i mean if you were like 20 stone then i could understand it! lol

    anyway ill stop waffling on now, i hope you feel better about stuff soon <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Drifter

    Sorry to hear you are having a bad time at the moment. We have some information about compulsive eating here, and there's a support group who may be able to give you the right kind of help.
    http://www.thesite.org/health/wellbeing/compulsive_eating.html
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ugh i think im going to be sick <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    i feel so i'll. instead of eating piles n piles of shit, im trying to eat piles and piles of fruit.

    its kind of like bullemia but without the being sick! lol

    thanks for that link karla, im going to write to the organisation <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Take care!!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    thanks thats really sweet <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I'm about 5"4 and probably nearly 11 stone. My ass is like, the size of fifteen Jennifer Lopez's, but why should anyone compare themselves to her?

    I don't think you sound fat at all, maybe compared to Britney Spears, but she wouldn't be on TV if she wasn't so slim. I've studied the media in sociology and I know that it doesn't represent reality.

    The UK average is size 14-16. That's not fat.

    I used to be nearly size 18 & ppl would laugh @ me in school & call me fat. But the truth is that no matter what other ppl think of you, there will always be someone who loves you for who you are.

    As for not fitting into your jeans, maybe you've just got water retention.
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