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Another one to add to Bongabudda's list of growing endorsements?
"I agree with Bongbudda" Ladyjade
"bongbudda speaks the truth" Susie
Bongbudda, the mods choice.
good luck
I've held off the calls as much as i can, i only called him twice in the past week. My calls are still being cut off, but im expecting it now and not feeling that hurt by it now, i feel less overwhelmed by it now, even though my feelings are not overwhelming me i still want to be friends with him, friends are always good..
Anyway it has come to light something that may have significance, i heard he has now got a girlfriend, more significant is when he got this girlfriend and who it is.. Firstly i think he may of got this girlfriend, after the first incident.. unbeknown to me until now.. And of course the 2nd incident he must of been with her in a relationship so that might explain the way he was acting towards me..!??
Secondly who it is a girl who is quite good looking in "my eyes", and who i was trying to get to know, and she was being pleasant to me, but i have a paranoia that she is not replying to my email now becuase "he" has something to do with it... Though just a paranoia atm, she was nice to me and we were going to hang out at some point...
God life is so redicoulously complicated all the more so for me, anyway im thinking to lay off the calls entirely and hopefully speak if and when i next bump into him. It's kinda of interesting watching how everything is unfolding, and didn't know sexuality was this complicated. Ohh btw i heard off "Bob" (the middleman)that he is bisexual, he's the one who kissed me. And he has a nice looking girlfriend..
Any thoughts would be appreciated...
Gahh.
I love you goddog2
Shut up troll
Stop calling. People do not miss what they can have in the way that you are giving it to them. You need to stop calling, then if any of these people are properly interested in you *they* will call you. If not, you can move on, because this whole situation is doing you no favours.
Good luck buddy
Malt
Ok, you're a creepy stalker, hes an asshole.
Go find someone more secure in their sexuality, i'm sure there must be at least one gay bar near you.
So I am right in thinking that every days or so, goddog2 resurrects this thread to repeat himself...and get EXACTLY the same response each time yah?...Yah....
Malt xxx
Although it is an interesting story, and obviously a genuine problem, you don't half drag it out.
At least he doesn't open a new thread each time...aww...bless him....
yeh well it'd be interesting, but i think your right i'll leave it to him to talk to me. Thanks malteser monkay, xxx
Goddog, people have mentioned gay bars but is there something more supportive near you, like a youth group or something? I promise, however isolated you may feel, there are other people out there who feel the same way as you do - and most of them have probably fallen for straight guys or girls in the past more times than is good for you! It's still not easy to meet people unless you're prepared to go out on a limb and go to bars or clubs, especially if you're underage (I don't know if you are) so if you can find some sort of community like a youth group that could really help you.
Check out www.gayyouthuk.com, I think it's still there, that used to have some good listings.
xxx
http://www.gayyouthuk.org.uk/
I really like the site, very useful.
then the next day he felt sick about it this is maybe why his ignoring you?
he may just enjoy the fun but not fancy men such as other men shag other men but arent gay or curious and his run away from you because he knows u fancy him and its pretty scary because his prob only curious if you was just up for fun or u started rubbing him up in the car you prob get carryed away again
Goddog, that's the site you want! And BGIOK (http://www.bgiok.org.uk/) is pretty good but not for listings.
x
thanxs for the links, i don't feel fully happy with being gay..
Again, i doubt you are going to get much out of this. he is OBVIOUSLY not interested in the slightest, he's not even curious as to what your intentions are. Seriously, Give Up.
I would like to rewind and ask your opinions on a small but maybe significant issue. after he passed out i gave him i was worried about him, i stayed next to him. Checked he was still breathing, and listened to his heart beat.. i stayed with for 2/3 hours and tried waking him etc by calling his name and making him sit up, but it was about 3 hours later when he did come around... he noticed his belt and trousers were undone, he did them up without any questions and without any kind of worry and then i walked him home. He didn't need any assistance so i guess he was soberish by this point, i just wonder whether he may be able to remember waking up seing his belt afterwards, since he seemed sober enough to walk home... and also at the time when he noticed??!!
And that isnt sexual molestation how?