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i hate bein skinny
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from da day i was born i ave always been skinny and still is skinny which always gets me down big time.
sum boys always take da piss out of me coz bein skinny,
ppl have even thought that i was making my self sick 2 b skinny,
sum said do i actually get fed,
i hate it so much even girls take da piss.
i eat a lot of food wen im depressed but that doesnt get me ne fatter,
has ne 1 ever had da same problem b4?
coz i like 2 no how they felt
sum boys always take da piss out of me coz bein skinny,
ppl have even thought that i was making my self sick 2 b skinny,
sum said do i actually get fed,
i hate it so much even girls take da piss.
i eat a lot of food wen im depressed but that doesnt get me ne fatter,
has ne 1 ever had da same problem b4?
coz i like 2 no how they felt
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If you really hate your appearance, then you could always go to the gym and try and build up some bulk, but it sounds like you care more about wat other ppl think, not what u think bout urself. And u shud neva change urself to suit sum1 else (because it always ends in tears and an identity crisis <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">)
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
But recently I put lotsa weight on and its soo hard to loose it!
I know exactly how u feel but I think if u act like u dont care, ppl will loose interest!
anyway im going off the point... it shouldnt matter what other people think of your appearance, it has sod all to do with them, next time someone makes a nasty comment, either take it as a joke or respond in kind, either in a jokey way or if theyre doing it to be nasty and do it often, then see how they like the same sort of treatment back to them. but dont let them see they get a rise out of you or it'll just make them do it more. same with most bullying, of the verbal kind anyway.
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
but when peeps say im skinny now i go mad and say no im not im slim!
they also say my bodies outta proportion, but thats just cause im slim with boobs and they aint got none!
when i went on the pill i retained a lot a water, so i went through a podgy stage, and i got the piss taken then aswell, no matter wot, people always find a 'minor fault', and its normally not ur prob, its the other person with the complex.
i know its hard not 2 listen and people tell u 2 ignor it, but the person whos the bully, is the 1 with the prob.
so true. it's just sad little pppl out 2 make ur life as miserable as poss so they can feel beta bout themselves.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
Iz u a gurl or iz u a boy?
[This message has been edited by Karla (edited 28-02-2001).]
hmmmm wonder what the rest was about?
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
Sorry, not all that scandalous!
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yeah i know what you mean, its a pain. do you think you could do something about the URL posted in liberty's post in anything goes about ourselves, either karla or dark knight himself, coz it messes it up!
god im picky
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
I used to be able to eat anything and not out it on, all my mates were getting curvy but i didn't.
I don't want to be like that again, but to perhaps lose a 2 stone would be good. Hey i'll donate you some if you like lol.
My own father used to say that if my boobs were any smaller they would be dents!!! He's not a pedaphile or owt, just his sence of humour.
Nah seriously...how old r u? You'll probably fill out as you get older if you are young.
Don't worry about other people, they probably just saying stuff coz they want to be like you!
You are the lucky ones
PARTY ON PEOPLE!!!!!
Is size 8 bad? My mate's ultra-skinny and she's a 6 so when I went down to an 8 recently I didn't see anything wrong with it. Is it too small? Got me worried now!
Nothing is too big or too small, as long as u r happy with urself thats all that matters <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
only 1% of women are happy with their bodies.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
I think woman are programmed to hate their bodies when they are born. Thats the only possible reason. My gf has a lovely body (shes a 12) but she hates it.
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
Its very hurtful and doesn't do much for my self confidence. Oh well! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
people who make nasty comments about other people's appearance totally suck in my opinion.
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
but 2 day i was out shoppin & i bought 2 pairs a trousers, 1 size 8 and 1 size 12! so im confused! theyre the both same style trousers aswell.
and also, sorry 2 rant, but famous peeps, ie vanessa feltz, say shes now size 12, so shes gonna b able to fit in 2 my trousers! i dont think so sum how. no wonder people feel they r 2 fat.
sorry, just had 2 have a barmy bout that.
I don't know about anyone else butI prefered her when she was big! Now she looks weird! There is nothing wrong with fatpeople unless they are too fat like sumo wrestlers!
I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
I am!!! Thats why I always wear baggy clothes to hide the fact that I am so skinny!
I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
I hate my feet cos thy're huge (6) compared to my skinny legs so I never wear skirts.
I eat quite a lot but I never seem to put any weight on.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
If you are over 16 (and only if) I would suggest you try going to the gym, lifing weights, as that'd build up bulk without getting you fat.
I'm overweight myself, and have been having a problem trying to starve to lose weight, but in the end it shouldn't matter what you look like.
Re: only 1% of women are happy with their bodies - I think a major problem is the way the media talk about people, I mean, they come over with the idea that only really thin women are attractive, and the models portrayed as the most beautiful in the world are medically underweight, as well as being very small built anyway!
And we women have this to battle with, in every magazine, on every television programme.
After thinking about this quite hard, the best advice I can suggest, for everyone, whether under or over weight, is that you should find something you like about your body, and think about that.
Not easy, but with practice it does work!
eg, I tell myself I have a beautiful smile, that works even on my most ugly and fat days!!
[This message has been edited by Babe_Behind_The_Bar (edited 25-03-2001).]
[This message has been edited by Babe_Behind_The_Bar (edited 25-03-2001).]