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So sick of hating myself...what to do?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I just can't take anymore of being me and hating myself, as I read on someones signature on here I just want to be happy in my own skin. Except I can't because I am disgusting, scarred, worthless and stupid, and it's just all so fucked up.
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I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I felt exactly the same as you! I still don't like myself in some ways but my self confidence is growing with time and with the help of a few good friends.

    Do you ever go out anywhere? Get out and enjoy yourself! Be yourself and that special someone will sweep you off your feet and make you feel special. You are not disgusting. If you feel scared then try taking up self defence classes! That helped my confidence, your not worthless and definately not stupid!!!!!

    Take a look at this wonderful poem which Al posted in another thread http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum7/HTML/000101.html

    Take care! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go to a councellor, they can help u find the root of ur probs and find ways for u to help urself.

    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for replying..
    I am seeing a psychologist weekly at the moment which seems to be helping...as well as many prescription drugs!

    I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    At least u r getting some sort of help then, with time u should start to feel better about yourself. I could sit here and say that u aint worthless or anything of what u may think, but there wouldnt b much point coz I no when u feel that way nothing anybody says changes how u feel about yourself. Ive been there too, and still am there to a point but I guess now I just learnt ways to accept myself and not dwell on it too much. Hopefully, with some help u will get to that point...u deserve it <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It wasa my signiture and trust, i know how you feel. You just gotta keep going.

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you have to believe in yourself to survive in the world. try looking in the mirror and repeating to yourself "i am pretty and i do like myself and i don't care what anyone thinks coz i'm me" its a small step on the way to being more confident. good luck mate!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The person who should love,respect themselves the most is themselves.Yr respect and love for yrself is so low how do you expect anymore,you criticise yrself so much,i think there are a lot appreciation around but you are so numb with this hatred that you just dont realise.you shouldnt think everyone else is better than you -im not telling you to be big headed but just show yr personality,if no-one likes you then yr not compatible wuth them then are you,there are friends for everyone,you just ahve to meet and see if you have anything in common.Dont control yr life with looks.do something top make yrself proud,do something out of the ordinary.does anyone actually tell you you are disgusting?i've got to go now,there is so much i want to say but i'll leave it till next time,in the meantime thank you for reading and please reply.take care of yrself.i'll speak to youu soon.

    love CHEEKy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    The person who should love,respect themselves the most is themselves.Yr respect and love for yrself is so low how do you expect anymore,you criticise yrself so much,i think there are a lot appreciation around but you are so numb with this hatred that you just dont realise.you shouldnt think everyone else is better than you -im not telling you to be big headed but just show yr personality,if no-one likes you then yr not compatible wuth them then are you,there are friends for everyone,you just ahve to meet and see if you have anything in common.Dont control yr life with looks.do something top make yrself proud,do something out of the ordinary.does anyone actually tell you you are disgusting?i've got to go now,there is so much i want to say but i'll leave it till next time,in the meantime thank you for reading and please reply.take care of yrself.i'll speak to youu soon.

    love CHEEKy

    Funny you use the word respect in your first sentence, because you have shown no respect to 2 of our members in the matter of minutes, grow up and take you insensitive attitude out of the health forum.

    {{{{{{Citrus}}}}}} ignore this cheeky git, he/she think they are being clever. I hope you are doing better at the moment. Take care
    Luk

    The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Luka I dont know what you mean,how have I shown no respect?????????I was just saying what I thought,I didnt even say anything offensive-if I have what have I done???
    l8r-CHEEKy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    Luka I dont know what you mean,how have I shown no respect?????????I was just saying what I thought,I didnt even say anything offensive-if I have what have I done???
    l8r-CHEEKy

    Unfortunately, in your attempt to give advice, you have shown that you know little about the debilitating disease of depression.

    Also, you have come straight in with an "I have known you for a while" attitude. Sometimes that works, but not usually in the health forum, with personal problems, especially with depression.

    Sometimes it is very difficult to reply to posts when u are feeling depressed & your request for a reply only serves to add to Citrus's pressure. Please try to be more sensitive & you will find that this is a wonderful place <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9



    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for all your words of support, it is much appreciated <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Take care everyone.

    I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good to hear ure takin action, like i finally am. ive been told that some of the drugs they give u can be really addictive, so be careful with that. im not all that experienced about doctors and stuff yet, but i hope it all works out for u <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by charley:
    ive been told that some of the drugs they give u can be really addictive, so be careful with that.

    Don't worry about ant-depressants being habbit forming because in my personal experience they aren't. I have been taking anti- depressants on and off since October 96 and been on them continuosly since march of last year. I have been on 7 different types of anti-depressants 1 type of anti-psychotic 3 types of sedative, 2 types of sleeping tablets and have not formed any kind of addiction, nor has any of my friends either and between me and them we've done all the major anti depressants.The only meds I might have formed a habit would have been the sleeeping pill Tamizpan which is notoriously addictive, but that was given in a small controlled dose. if there's anything else I can help on charley just ask



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    Shame you had to spam isn't it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you fucking mother fucker will you fuck off
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mmmmmm old code
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