If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
Your first love....
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Just wondering, how many of you are still with your "first love"??...
or for those who arent - how long were u with your first love for? and looking back, do you think it was real love or just puppy love?? and why did u split up etc etc...
The reason i'm asking this is because im still in a relationship with my first love, we've been together 2 years, and we are even thinking about moving in together... but you don't often hear about first love's actually lasting. so i'm kinda interested to know about other people's experiences xXx
or for those who arent - how long were u with your first love for? and looking back, do you think it was real love or just puppy love?? and why did u split up etc etc...
The reason i'm asking this is because im still in a relationship with my first love, we've been together 2 years, and we are even thinking about moving in together... but you don't often hear about first love's actually lasting. so i'm kinda interested to know about other people's experiences xXx
0
Comments
I hated him for a while because he'd made me so sad breaking my heart and evrything but now im over it and ive moved on were mates and i can be civil to him. Miss it though
No
But I would say that, cos I'm also 20 and never been close to falling in love.
Fuck love, let it be. It'll catch you one day.
I dont understand that? Are you still with your first love kermit?
Fuck yea dude. People really underestimate the joys of just chillin. Like they are all oh, I want a boyfriend, I want a girlfriend, I want to be cuddled bla bla bla fuck me with a jagged broken broom handle. ust hanging out is so the way to be. This doesn't really deal with the topic I've now realized.
Like luckystar's, He broke my heart wen we were first together, but we remained civil and stayed friends... then about a month or so after we got back together, and we've been together ever since - coming up 2 years now.
And like my_name's, he's a bad tempered alcoholic stoner... he's calm when he's stoned - and bad tempered only when he drinks. But he hasn't cheated on me (so far lol).
Guess i'll just have to see how much longer it lasts :P
That's what I said:p
I'm with my first proper love, though I've had crushes in the past
2.5 years today apparently.
Been together just over three years (or, officially, just under). met as mates on here (tres sad) but fell in love in the real world :thumb:
I'm more exacting;)
It all went down the drain. I don't even talk to or associate with him anymore. Neither do I want to.
Thats the same for most of my friends, they all seem to have ended on bad terms with their first love.. either that or they dont associate with them any more because it hurts too much... i think its true that your first love is the 1 you never forget...
same here but only broke up a couple of months ago..still got that should i try and get back together or not, but then i think how much he hurt me..
blah, love sucks
Gawd, that must be love....rembering the exact days
Wouldn't have changed it for the world though.
one day...
A few months after we broke up I started going out with my ex boyfriend and we were together 20 months which is quite a long time i guess and i felt so much more for him than my 1st boyfriend.
But now i'm with my current boyfriend and what i feel for him excell's what i felt for the other two by millions and we have been together nearly a year and a half. Hmmm.
Your making a consistant first impression arent you.
And in the mean time your coming on to anything female here.