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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my lad openly watch porn. He knows I'm that kinda gal, and he's that kinda guy.

    However, sometimes he gets sort of shy when I'm over at his and some wee dude on Limewire is trying to get "One Night In Paris" off of him. Haha.

    I'd be annoyed at the live porn, as it isn't rehearsed and purely for the individual's request. I'd be pissed as fuck as he'd be telling her what to do when clearly I could do it without him having to pay. Cheek.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    No, you're still too jealous and too sanctimonious. And, of course, wrong.

    If he was sleeping with her it'd be cheating. he's just looking, therefore it's not. It's quite a simple concept to grasp.

    Are you very religious or something?

    Second-Sophie doesn't has to be religious, as I pretty much dislike both. Fair dos, carry on doing religion and porn but they're both one of those things that gets up my wick when either are forced on me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I read this exact thread about 3 weeks ago on this site.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    No, you're still too jealous and too sanctimonious. And, of course, wrong.

    If he was sleeping with her it'd be cheating. he's just looking, therefore it's not. It's quite a simple concept to grasp.

    Are you very religious or something?

    No, I'm not relgious, just insecure i guess.
    Please don#'t get so angry at me over this, im sorry if I'm come over as high and mighty it's just i feel so shit. When i think about this, which i can't seem to stop doing, i either start crying or get really angry.

    I'm hurt.

    I've spoken to him about it in quite a lot of depth now, and now know everything it doesn't seem any easier to cope with. He went to a forum place that offers live webcam shows one on one, with normal girls just like me who have decidd to make money from amature porn shows.
    It just fels like hes cheated on me, he's enjoyed the sexual company of another girl, and in a serius relationship, it is very important to me that it is closed and not open to others. I know he hasn't physically touched her but hes come just about as close as possible and it hurts. I am jealous, and so is he, he gets really angry if another guy even speaks to me at the bar when we're out so i cant nderstand how he can think actually seeing another girl naked is ok.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You should log on to his computer and watch loads of men camshows, and use his credit card to pay for it. Show him what it's like.

    As you said at the time, he did it when he was horny and you weren't there. If he is doing it instead of having sex with you then there are problems, but otherwise you are being too self-conscious and too jealous.

    Do you still have a good sex life, or is he off wanking over camshows instead of having the real thing? Your answer to that will tell you if there is anything to worry about.

    Looking at porn in a relationship is not disgusting or derogatory- I've just been looking at teenagelesbianorgy.com or some such thing and it means nothing but tits and ass.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Porn?
    Originally posted by secondsophie
    Do you think telling a partener that porn makes you feel inadequate, and that you'd rather they didn't watch it, make them want to more?

    i think it deppends on what grounds the relationship is based upon. personaly if a partner said that to me, i would stop looking at porn, and i don't really think i would want to. if i have a guy/girl why bother with porn?

    Do boys really look at porn and just tell their girlfriends they don't to save their feelings?

    a guy has done this to me once, to be honest, i don't care, in a way i kinda rather my boyfriend (when i had one) did, because it kinda made me feel like he wasn't gonna be looking at other girls when i was with him.

    Is it unreasonable to ask a man not to watch it? Isn't regular sex (diverse and even kinky) enough?

    to some people it isn't. and yeah i do think it's unresanable to ask anyone not to look at porn. male or female.


    Is paying for live porn as close to cheating as you can get? Or am i exaggerating this?

    ummm. i wouldn't be to happy if my guy did that, but i wouldn't call it cheating in anyway....i'd just see it was a bit silly. i'm not gonna call it explotation because i know that girls in those places often get paid VERY well, and are often treated very well too. but there are exseptions....

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