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18th birthday present for my sister

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi,

I'd be glad if anyone could give me some ideas for a (kinky?) bday present for my sister's 18th birthday in 2 weeks.
I've already asked her if she's got anything in mind but she said that "I'd come up with something *wink*".

usually I go with vibrators or something alike for 18th birthdays (of course only with people I know they'd laugh about it :D) plus something more "usuful" (like a book/CD/DVD/ etc.).

the problem now is that I got my sister a vibrator for last christmas already... long story short: she wanted to shock my parents so she put it on her wishlist (teenage girls...) leaving them not shocked at all of course. so I decided to take matters in my own hands and got one for her :D now THAT was shock on christmas eve (and a good laugh for me *lol*)

anyways, she kindof made it clear that she didn't just want a usual present but something sexy... but what... or should I even go with that? I guess the joke-aspect would have gone since last christmas probably can't be topped.
so what to do?
just get her a "normal" present and hope her friends will come up with something better?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you bought your *sister* a vibrator?! :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    you bought your *sister* a vibrator?! :eek2:

    thats what i was thinking :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so? I mean she just blushed and my parents were like "what is that now?!" but noone got mad or anything.
    in the end we all laughed about it :D

    and here (in my circle of friends) it's kindof a tradition to get someone something kinky or alcoholic for their 18th birthday because now they can "appreciate" life to the fullest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how about getting her a bondage starter kit...

    and then show her how to use it :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    how about getting her a bondage starter kit...

    and then show her how to use it

    come on now its his sister, thats just perverted!


    although incest is best ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    how about getting her a bondage starter kit...

    and then show her how to use it

    Naughty!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want something to really get her going (clearly with you NOT being there) you can buy these finger tips things which go on your three chosen fingers (from harmony’s sex shop) and they vibrate –they have a wire that connects to a box thingy so you can control the amount of vibes per seconds on the finger tips. I’ve heard they are very VERY pleasing. I haven’t got none myself but am planning too very soon.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get her a dildo.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Eurgh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    Eurgh.

    you ok?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...and when I read the title of this thread I was sure that it'd somehow fallen into the wrong forum. :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by David Grohl
    you ok?

    I'd be mortified if my brother bought me a vibrator.

    I couldn't even HINT I wanted a present of ANY sexual nature to him. It's just...wrong. :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have to agree :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by David Grohl
    come on now its his sister, thats just perverted!


    although incest is best ;)

    i was actually taking the piss but ok :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so was i, lol :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO I haven't laughed this much in days! Dirty bastard.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know if it's just me; but there's no way in hell I'd feel comfortable if my brother handed me a vibrator as a present; even if it was joke. Maybe for/from mates; but not family members.

    Can ya not, like buy her jewellery/dvds/books/alcohol/take her out for dinner - Clothes (Not Underwear) hmmm... vouchers so she can treat herself. Champange glass with 18 on it, etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    I'd be mortified if my brother bought me a vibrator.

    I couldn't even HINT I wanted a present of ANY sexual nature to him. It's just...wrong. :yuck:

    Maybe incest is socially acceptable in Germany? :cool:

    I dunno, if you insist on buying her something of the sexual nature how about some of that edible body paint or some bondage tape? Or go all out and buy her a PVC suit with a mouth gag?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *lol* great ideas so far
    ...in opposite-world ;)

    well, it's not like she suggested getting her something for her pleasure. like "buy me a dildo cuz I'm so sexually frustrated". no!

    I was thinking more of something thats like funny and that she doesn't expect.

    and she didn't actually want the vibrator for christmas, just to make things clear, she just wanted my parents to read her wishlist and be somewhat "shocked"... as she put it.

    so, no I'm not sexually intimate with my sister nor do we talk about stuff like that, it's just meant to be a funny gift for her 18th bday *lol*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get her a stripper and a cake in the shape of a penis ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by David Grohl
    get her a stripper and a cake in the shape of a penis ;)

    that has to be the best idea yet

    i want it to be my birthday now :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    that has to be the best idea yet

    i want it to be my birthday now :(

    you know it doesnt have to your birthday to get a stripper and cake ;) lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bacon
    this topic is mormontastic!

    do you actually know what you're talking about? :eek2:
    what does this have to do with mormonism?!?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Perhaps you should leave the dodgy present buying behind at last christmas... otherwise it might turn into a tradition, and that'll just be a tad dodgy... :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, if you usually get vibrators for each other, then step it up on notch, and get her a vibrating butt plug! :D

    ...Oh, and don't forget the batteries, and a tube of KY jelly!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just get her a vibrator! :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    from what i gather, she already has one :crazyeyes

    when i was younger i bought my brother & his wife a pair of fluffy handcuffs. i was too young to realise what they were meant to be used for though...i just thought they looked cute & it was like, symbolic of their love for one another. hahaa.

    & that is kinda weird a bloke buying a vibrator for his sis. i would understand more if it was a girl buying for a sister. but it was for shits & giggles, so why not..

    i wouldn't buy her something else of the sort this time round, though. leave it to her girly friends! get her a pair of shoes or something - you can't go wrong with shoes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    I'd be mortified if my brother bought me a vibrator.

    I couldn't even HINT I wanted a present of ANY sexual nature to him. It's just...wrong. :yuck:


    Maybe that a really smart way to put your kids off sex,like kids never want to do what they're told so if you're relatives start giving you sex gear it would put you right off!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you must get something go and get a money voucher from a underwear shop or from a ann summers or the equivlent there.

    I would NEVER buy anything like that for my sister, infact not for any of my family
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