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Why is it Diffrent for BOYZ?
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Can Sum1 please tell me why -
When a Boy has been with loadsa girls it is seen as a good thing. his mates congratulate him and it's like sum sort of "manly" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">Thing!! No one looks badly on them and even thought they might get a rep it's never seen as ne thing bad
BUT when a girl does it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> it's a totally diffrent story.
BOyz, Gurlz, can u please fill me in on why this is???? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif">
When a Boy has been with loadsa girls it is seen as a good thing. his mates congratulate him and it's like sum sort of "manly" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">Thing!! No one looks badly on them and even thought they might get a rep it's never seen as ne thing bad
BUT when a girl does it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> it's a totally diffrent story.
BOyz, Gurlz, can u please fill me in on why this is???? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif">
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I have slept with a lot of people and the only people and I dont get called a slag.
I think its cos of my mates that i have though and the sort of people i hang around with, we dont think its big if you sleep with loads of people but we pat each other on the back when we get off with someone, but we dont sleep with the guys we are good mates with.
Ive noticed also that when you sleep with a guy and youve had a few of his close mates as well thats a common case where a girl gets called a slag because shes been through em all.
SLAG
Brit. informal, derogatory a promiscuous woman.
As you can see it doesnt say a prmiscuous person it says a premiscuous WOMAN.
Wonder if theres a name for a premiscuous man or doesnt that exist?
And dont worry I am a woman, well a lady, as a lot of people on here will tell you, mind you a few of them will tell you im not a lady after some of the pics ive sent em.
hehehehe
Is it an all girls school you go to?
Id guess that some of them are very bitchy.
Not that girls who dont go to all girls schools arent cos i know some right bitches form m yold school.
[This message has been edited by Spirit (edited 25-12-2000).]
I think the whole bloky gurl thing is cool.
I doublt things are going to change much in the near future. However, I'd be curious to hear from some of the younger people here. Have you seen any changes happening yet? I think the comment about not getting called a slag because you are more "one of the boys" is interesting, and a good sign.
Man, I can't wait for the day I can screw anyone I want and retain a decent reputation. Just a dream that won't come true....
then there's the other school of thought, which is that blokes who call people slags are jealous/hypocritical bastards.
Then there's the super-toff sociological argument which is that men have been brought up to 'conquor' women (hence all the back slapping at having shagged 5 girls in one night, etc) and thus some huge inferiority complex kicks in when a girl does the same.
which ever one u choose we don't get put in too good a light, but personally i'm gonna have to go with the super-toff version.
I'm actually really proud of that, came up with it on the spot and everything, fantastic. anyone care to ridicule me on this point?
Life: Quite intersting in parts, but no substitute for the real thing
But if a girl gets called a slut, then why is a guy called "manly" as you said. It is really dumb!
Normal? Why by normal? Especially when being wierd is so much fun.
Sorry
One thing that does really wind me up is peoples messed up ideas that all young mums r some sort of slag. Ive met a lot of people who treat me like that since bein pregnant, and it drives me up the wall.
SOME PEOPLE R SO IGNORANT!
Just needed to get that out lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I know a girl who had a steady boyfriend for 2 years at school and she got pregnant just b4 the summer and shewas then labelleda slag off all the girls who were shagging different blokes every night!
It dont surprise me, girls can be such little bitches. A lot of girls said stuff behind my back but as soon as I saw them myself they would lick my arse and be really nice. All these big mouth bitches dont have the bollox to say it to your face...I just think to myself well like I value your oppinion anyway!
Or has everyone missed out this little point?
I have had 2 partners, both long term, so I dont have to worry, but you should hear some of the stuff that goes around my college about lads as well as girls.