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Will i find another guy???
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Well as you know i'm Pregnant! I know this baby is gonna change the life of people&stuff! But will i eva find a guy that will want me&the baby?? I know it would be hard for the guy to except me having a baby so young, but i cant stay a single mum 4eva! A few guys have asked me out and i know what there after,but its when i tell them..its like "oh my god"! So anyone?
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grizzly, we all think that youre great, so im sure that guys will too.
im trying to condense all this, coz otherwise id b writing pages and pages..
basically, to guys, single mum=responsibility, because they are more likely to require a stable relationship, and have less time for them.
and i know that all guys arent that shallow, but that's the general thing.
HOWEVER, there ARE guys that this wont apply to, and they are, well, precious. and i know alot of people hate it when i do this, but im telling you what happened to me.
a while ago, i was pregnant. and i was getting to know joe/tim/wilbur at the same time. and he swore to stick by me, and help me through it. and i know this sounds weird because im trying not to go far into it. but basically, i lost that baby. a few months later, i thought i was pregnant again. and tim said he would take care of me, and take care of the baby like it was his own. so what im trying to say is, there are good guys out there, if you look hard enough. and alot of the time, when youre not looking at all.
my god, i read this and it makes no sense. so im posting it to see if anyone can make any.
grizzly, basically, although things will be harder with a baby, there are still plenty of oppurtunities.
its just what ickle said, the responsibility thing. I'm sure if ne guy is worth having he wont mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Personally, I wouldn't go out with you. But I'm 16 and I couldn't cope with that kind of responsibilty.
You will find that if you are looking for a guy that will support you all the time, you need to look at the older guys - 20+ i would imagine. the two years can often make a lot of difference.
I also have a personal view on this, but I'm not gonna state it.
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
im sure there are A LOT of nice men out there...just give it a bit of time. if they really love you...they will accept whatever that is attached to u too...your baby.
if not...they might not love you as much and im sure you know what to do!
im sure there are A LOT of nice men out there...just give it a bit of time. if they really love you...they will accept whatever that is attached to u too...your baby.
if not...they might not love you as much and im sure you know what to do!
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Look i'm not in your position but seriously i think you'll be a great mum. Even if you keep the baby or not then your life still goes on...including blokes. Just watch yourself and make sure no otgher guys use you but treat you as you come, with or without baby.
may i ask what did your mum say?
Kat
Good luck hunny!