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Girls or Grrrrrrrrls?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
OK here's something that i've had to suffer for ages, girls and the whole equality issue.

Now i'm not a sexist bloke, i'm all for equal rights but i can't help but get the feeling that women exploit this issue.

Now i know that there are always exceptions so Monkey_Boy thanks you in advance for not being picky! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

OK why do guys always have to make the first move?

Why is it that the lasses can hit the lads but the other way around and it becomes domestic violence?

Why can girls wear dresses but i can't? (apart from the fact that i don't have the hips for it)

girls i know actually use the excuse 'because i'm a girl' to not do any work

Why can they be more liberal inpointing out what guys they fancy wheras we get a smack round the chops for even looking at someone randomly in the street?

These are all taken from mine and my friends personal experiences, any more to add? how about a counter-argument?

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that's just the way the world works!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i feel so ripped off
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    girls can hit blokes coz they only do it in jest, when blokes hit women it bloody hurts, see my experiences with evil boy at the party i just came back form, he kept slapping me and pinching me and nicking my shoes and it really hurt!!!!! which is why blokes cant hit women.

    blokes have to make the first move coz girls job is to entice, they sit or stand or dance and flirt, blokes make the first move. just how it happens.

    girls wear dresses coz they (generally) dont have hairy legs like blokes! and also the hip issue. and also because people will point and laugh at a bloke in a skirt, even if hes david beckham.

    ill read this in the morning and laugh when im more sober.

    It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    and also because people will point and laugh at a bloke in a skirt, even if hes david beckham.

    Or Guy Richie, or Sting ...



    Harry is very definitely on the boat.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Because girls are bloody hipocrits, that's why.
    There is a girl at work whowas sitting on her arse while we were sorting out a delivery. Deliveries arent very bad, but on this day the lift was being serviced.
    So we had to haul tv's, Pc's, HI-FIs, VCRs etc up 5 flights of stairs. This girl was doing f-all, so I asked her "do you believe in equal rights for women?" and she replied "of course". So i asked her to give us a hand with the boxes and she said no, cos she was a girl.
    See, proof that they only want equality when it suits them.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    Because girls are bloody hipocrits, that's why.


    And the award for stereotype of the year goes to....

    WHOWHERE!

    Come on, some of us are hypocrites, some of us aren't. Some blokes are hypocrites, the rest are liars (leave it.)

    A lot of women do exploit the equal rights thing. Why? Think thousands of years of exploitation. Think cavemen. I'm sure you can cope for a little longer, the novelty will wear off soon... and Bob The Builder will be declared the 43rd President. Oh wait, he already has....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    ALL generalisations are wrong
    Lol j9. Very good. But Whowhere has a point - equality usually only suits girls when it's good for them.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    ALL generalisations are wrong
    Lol j9. Very good. But Whowhere has a point - equality usually only suits girls when it's good for them.

    I didn't want people to take offence at my point, Im sure there are a lot of women out there who don't use equal oppotunities only when it suits them. I was just using it as an example. I have another example, when I was at school the girls were complaining about not being able to play football in PE. They complained all the bloody time so they PE teachers decided to let them play. But on the condition that the lads could play hockey. Did any of the girls play football??? F*** did they. What did they do when we played hockey....they complained because we always beat them. Need I say more???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you feel the nedd to then please do,

    Im all alloooonne with no one to talk too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Sorry monkey boy 4 interupting your topic with my drivell but hey im soo loonely!!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    at my flying school (i spend each weekend there) in the whole place there is only one other girl who all the guys bitch about, why? because she just sits in the admin office all drinking tea while they run about in the rain cleaning aircraft and organizing flying programmes. she really pisses me off coz i'm quite prepared to help out. i'll drive the landrover, crawl about under aircraft to clean them, or tidy up the building at the end of the day. thats why i get on with all the guys and she is left out - she gives us girls a bad name!!!
    although i have to say there is a problem with being one of the lads! you have to endure them talking about women as if you are male - can be quite an enlightening experience but often its bloody offencesive!!!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well moving swiftly on from that slightly incomprehensible msg (u are forgiven spirit <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; ) i'm perfectly fine with being called hypcritical because i'm sure i am.

    But j9, what u was saying about all those thousands of years of tortuous sexism and wossname, well fair enough, i'd feel just a little bit miffed if i was exploited for ages (er...which i am).

    But when us blokes finally get our procrastinating butts into gear and are dragged kicking and screaming into the new 'equal' millenium, it's not gonna be too encouraging to keep it up when the shoe is on the other foot.

    what i mean is, that if there are equal rights but some women exploit those rights then we're just gonna swing around and it'll be the blokes who are exploited, granted, not as much as women used to be but u see what i'm talking about don't u?

    i hope so, cos i've forgotten already

    ah well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Life is like a pubic hair on a toilet seat, before too long, you get pissed off
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hey, you cant have procrastination all to yourselves, i want some of that too!! why else am i ingoring my a level module exams and doing no work and going out drinking every night? possible because im lazy.. but an element of procrastination is always there, in everything i do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; hehe

    It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think it's probably more because you're a FOOL! work, girl, work! or do i have to blackmail u again by threatening the tell all ur TheSite chums about last summer's business with the ferret and the shrimping net???
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    *looks worried*... was i drunk then too??

    It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On the sexism thing, monkey_boy I totally agree with u (and Im a girl!). I think girls use the fact they r girls as an excuse. I hate it when u see girls giving it large to blokes in an argument and really raring up to the point of asking for a slap (and in some cases they actually smack the bloke) just coz they no that the bloke wont hit em back. It really winds me up. Ive seen a girl do it to my brother before, and he came so close to smacking her...as soon as she hit him me and my sister went for her and that shut her up. Loads of girls blatently take advantage of the fact most men aint gonna hit em back and its not right. I think if a girl is outta line and hits a bloke when its un-called for...he has every right to hit her back.
    Im not saying that blokes have the right to hit girls full stop, coz I really dont agree with that (having been at the receiving end in the past). But I do think girls take the piss at times.
    There I hava said my peice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; what so...someone agrees with me...and...AND...they're of the female gender????

    Well by holy zarquon's singing fish if i don't activate *smug mode* right now!!!

    HA! eat that feminist union! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    Life is like a pubic hair on a toilet seat, before too long, you get pissed off
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:
    and Bob The Builder will be declared the 43rd President. Oh wait, he already has....

    LOL. You can say that again.

    Harry is very definitely on the boat.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but hold on, i've just thought of something........... guys have had the upper hand for so long that surely now its our turn?

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

    [This message has been edited by whizzygirl (edited 27-12-2000).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:

    A lot of women do exploit the equal rights thing. Why? Think thousands of years of exploitation. Think cavemen. I'm sure you can cope for a little longer, the novelty will wear off soon...

    Yep, too right. Still whizzygirl, it's not really fair to be vengeful, is it?

    *thinks*

    OK, it is!

    *|* Chica *|*


    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    but hold on, i've just thought of something........... guys have had the upper hand for so long that surely now its our turn?

    The thing is, that just cos we've been taking the piss the past few hundred centuries, it doesn't mean that it was right, it just means we were stupid. Giving women the upper hand is just swining round to the other extreme, it's an equality that has to be achieved.

    Male supremesis was stupid and wrong and unfair, but female supremesis would be exactly the same thing

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Monkey_Boy:

    But j9, what u was saying about all those thousands of years of tortuous sexism and wossname, well fair enough, i'd feel just a little bit miffed if i was exploited for ages (er...which i am).


    Talk about misquoting MB lol. I didn't say that :0P~~~~~~~~

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    Talk about misquoting MB lol. I didn't say that :0P~~~~~~~~

    lol soz j9, someone musta said it though, and u can quote me on this...

    "bugger"

    now i feel stupid...well stupider than usual


    LIFE: Quite interesting in parts, but no substitute for the real thing
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so we never get our revenge monkey boy??? do you know how many women were treated like shit by men for hundreds of years?

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    so we never get our revenge monkey boy??? do you know how many women were treated like shit by men for hundreds of years?

    yes...all of them

    and i know u won't agree with me on this (well probably not anyway) but revenge isn't the answer, i'm sorry that women were exploited for thousands of years, but i haven't oppressed any of them, so i don't see why i should have to bear the revenge that should be inflicted on all the bastards who DID exploit women.

    I speak for all the men who support equal rights, how long do u think they are likely to support it when women take the revenge out on them? it just aint the way
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Monkey_Boy:
    yes...all of them

    and i know u won't agree with me on this (well probably not anyway) but revenge isn't the answer, i'm sorry that women were exploited for thousands of years, but i haven't oppressed any of them, so i don't see why i should have to bear the revenge that should be inflicted on all the bastards who DID exploit women.

    I speak for all the men who support equal rights, how long do u think they are likely to support it when women take the revenge out on them? it just aint the way

    This is very true!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    so we never get our revenge monkey boy??? do you know how many women were treated like shit by men for hundreds of years?


    my god i was in a bitchy mood when i wrote this! that time of the month again, sorry everyone especially monkey boy!



    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    my god i was in a bitchy mood when i wrote this! that time of the month again, sorry everyone especially monkey boy!

    Fear not whizzygirl, i never took offence and i'm certain no one else did, besides, i'm used to being bollocked <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    anyway, it's a perfectly legit opinion to have, if i'd been exploited for a few centuries, i'd be pretty miffed
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