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Cheating and friendship...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've recently split up with my girlfriend who i'd been with for just under a year so we were really close. She never made it to her second year at Uni so she was pretty down not being able to see her friends and all. We both had the same friends and we were both in the same hall so i saw her pretty much all the time. We decided it would be best to separate. Then later we decided to give it a try and have a long distance relationship. When my mates heard about this they said they had to tell me something. They told me that she had been cheating on me with several guys over the time we'd been going out. I was devastated, and confused i couldn't believe she could do this. It made me feel like i had no idea who my girl friend was anymore. I promtly foned her and confronted her about it to which she admitted it. We then had a nasty conversation which consisted of me hurling abuse at her mostly. I said i didn't care whether i ever saw her again. But now i feel like i want to be friends. She was also one of my best friends while she was at uni. Do you think this is a good idea?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are u asking if it's a good idea to try and be friends again?
    Even though i obviously don't know the ins and outs of what happened i think it's always best to try at least to be friends with ex's.
    I'm probably not the best person to advise you on this, due to my cheating on my long distance ex bf several times, but what i can say is that i think you should give it a go, you'll probably regret it if u don't try and make up with her, cos it sounds like you think about her a lot. I hope things go well for you whatever u decide to do <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
    xxxs

    [ 09-12-2001: Message edited by: ~SeaShihtzu~ ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Always, always, try before you think of not trying. Because if it doesn't work out at the end, at least you've tried and won't be thinking about "What if...".

    Good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    give it a go and see wat happens at least you'll have made an effort <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers guys, i was thinking i might as well try. Hopefully she still wants to be friends too. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Good Luck Hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What are you thinking, if they cheated, then they dont een deserve the respect you give to a persons pet dog that shits on your lawn, after all, she did go somewhere else for the loving, and didnt even respect you enough to break up with you because she didnt care for you much! i think you shouldnt try and be friends with her, because with being friends, will just come pain.
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