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He's soooo jealous !!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
One of my uni flatmates is getting me down a bit.

Basically he's been having sly digs at me for weeks, putting me down, and trying his best to shatter my confidence with his little comments.

Anyway we went out Thursday night to this club, and after a lot of drinking on my part, I ended up on the dancefloor with my mates, including HIM, and ended up buying this girl a drink and started talking to her when he came up and physically tried to drag me away from the bar saying it was time to go.

I had sobered up at that point and was getting on good with the girl, and got home later. Then I heard from another, more trustworthy flatmate that he had been putting me down all night after they left, saying how she was just leading me on etc etc.

I aint trying to sound mean, but he keeps telling us how he has never had a g/f in his life, and it is blatantly obvious that he has no idea about the birds and the bees etc. So I'm thinking he's a bit jealous.

But I just want him to get on with me, I mean whenever I come close to a girl he starts his shite comments, he is so obviously jealous, and if i dont get it sorted soon its gonna damage any chance of me and girls getting on coz he seems determined to stop me havin a laugh with the opposite sex.

I would talk to him, but he has a way of twisting things to make it sound like im slaggin him off, which i really dont want to do.

Any advice would be appreciated <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Brian

Winners never quit and quitters never win !!

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I appreciate that you probably want to get on with im cus he's a flat mate and all that, but he does sound like a total arse! Why don't you just tell him your situation and then if he tries twisting things then go out and meet girls without him!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    didnt u have a girlfriend im sorry if im mixing u up with someone else but i thought u were v. close! n e way on to the problem tell him you dont like his behaviour and if he has some problem with you tell him where to go hope ive helped <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    angel
    xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This guy sounds like a total wanker.. If it were me I wouldn't go out drinking/clubbing with him and if you really must and he starts his antics when you are chatting someone up tell him to politely fuck off.. he doesn't make any effort to get on with you so why should you put up with his shit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think your right he's jealous.. and if he is shit with girls he probably doesn't like to see anyone else getting on. I know it twould be hard for you to go out without him so just tell him were to go if he wont listen to you or else just kick his ass.... thats wat i'd do

    !!!violence is bad!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he slags you right in front of a girl next time your out, lean over to her a say in her ear "he's very frustrated, he hasnt pulled in his whole life." and walk away.
    she's bound to notice he acting a jerk.
    even better if she laughs when you say it cos he wont hear and it should take the wind out of his sails!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ibbow:
    If he slags you right in front of a girl next time your out, lean over to her a say in her ear "he's very frustrated, he hasnt pulled in his whole life." and walk away.
    she's bound to notice he acting a jerk.
    even better if she laughs when you say it cos he wont hear and it should take the wind out of his sails!

    why couldn't i think of something nice like that yeah take this advice and if it doesn't work then kick his ass

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOL guys !!!

    He's been surprisingly quiet towards me for the last few days, he obviously feels thereatened by me in some way.

    Oh well c'est la vie.

    Winners never quit and quitters never win !!
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