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my ex touched me up

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
last nite a friend who i hadn't seen for 3 years coz he moved away, showed up on my doorstep! Neway, dat was a bit of a nice surprise, and he was wiv my ex, who i am still quite good friends with (we broke up about 2 yrs ago).

Neway, i went out wiv them, they were a bit drunk and rowdy, and when me and my ex were left alone together, he started touching my boobs and then tried to touch sumwhere else b4 i told him where 2 go.

I broke up wiv him bcoz i got bored and i didnt fancy him nemore, and he was kinda hurt, and for months afterwards, his friends were beggin me to go bak out wiv him again bcoz he was so unhappy. But i didnt.

Last nite, after i came home, we started chattin on da net and he apologised, which i accepted, but then he started tellin me dat he still luved me and has eva since we broke up.

I didn't know really wot 2 say, but then he started gettin suicidal and sayin dat he didnt deserve to live, so i sent him to dat test ur self depression site, and he got a 45.

I said, y dont u go to a councellor coz they can help u, but he said he prefers to keep it inside, because if he doesnt admit it to ne1 else, then its like its not happening. I said bein in denial, dusent make it ne beta, only worse.

He said he aint got ne friends and he feels empty inside, and he used 2 get bullied @ skool, so i sent him my post in health, "lonely and depressed". he didn't know i was depressed, so i thought maybe if he knew that sum1 else was goin thru da same fing it mite make fings easier 4 him.

I said he cud always talk to me, and am plannin 2 talk 2 his best friend, jus to say, y'know, b there 4 him if he wants to talk.

Neway, wot happened last nite, made me fink, is it me dat fcuked his life up? I dont know what to do, he wont go see sum1, and i can listen, but i cant help.

He says he still loves me, and i'm worried dat if i say something wrong, then it'll push him over the edge.

The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's the URL for the test-your-self depression site???

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    What's the URL for the test-your-self depression site???

    http://community.netdoktor.com/ccs/uk/depression/facts/testyourself/goldberg.jsp



    Respect
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx dude. I got a 16 on it. Hmmm...pretty happy with that newa.

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I got a 42 he he <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Broken Heart:
    I got a 42 he he <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    Sorry 43 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;


    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Broken Heart:
    Sorry 43 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;



    Mark, you want a low score!!! Silly man!!

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh dear..............50

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Mark, you want a low score!!! Silly man!!


    I know I do! I wasn't completely honest when filling in some of the questions and when I was honest I got 48.


    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well thanx for all the advice ppl! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; lol

    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Mark, you want a low score!!! Silly man!!


    Its not a joking matter turtle! Can't you be serious for one time in you life?

    Sorry for being so rude Drifter! You asked for advice and we drifted away from the topic (no pun intended).

    Anyway, I know exactly how your ex feels! Well to some extent. I think the only thing you can do is be there for him but don't let him take advantage of you! Try and persuade him to get professional help!

    How old is he? How long ago was he bullied? Has something recently happened to him lately to make him worse?

    GOOD LUCK
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;




    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Broken Heart:
    Its not a joking matter turtle! Can't you be serious for one time in you life?

    Sorry for being so rude Drifter! You asked for advice and we drifted away from the topic (no pun intended).

    Anyway, I know exactly how your ex feels! Well to some extent. I think the only thing you can do is be there for him but don't let him take advantage of you! Try and persuade him to get professional help!

    How old is he? How long ago was he bullied? Has something recently happened to him lately to make him worse?

    GOOD LUCK
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;



    Sorry m8...

    newa, read you're sig b4 you give me that type of advice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; j/k...but it is a bit odd.


    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I did it for 2 months ago and got a 90! and I did it 'properly' and got a 29, Im healed!!!!
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