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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok i really dont know what to do about a week ago i told this guy that i fancied his mate just for a laugh and to get a reaction. And then he went and told him and it turns out the guy really fancies me! But the problem is i dont! He is really short and that is the main reason why but i know this subject is really hurtful for him as it has been the same all his life. He's a really nice guy and when he asked me out i didnt have the heart to say no but i really dont wanna go out with him! I dont know what to do. Part of me just wants to do it for him cos he will get really hurt if i reject him and plus i shouldnt of told his mate i fancied him when i didnt! Im not sure if i could stand the embarassment of going out with him although thatb sounds so horrible! PLZ HELP!!I dunno wat to do

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It sounds to me as if ure being a bit judgemental - sorry! Dont just have an opinion of him as this short guy coz he may be really nice. Why dont you say to him can we just go out as mates first to see how things go. If you still dont like him when uve got to know him, say no, but if you do go out with him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The only way to know is to go out with him and find out afterwards how you feel about him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea i know its judgemental but some things u just cant help feeling. i already know him very well and hes a lovely guy i just dont feel comfortable getting with him. but how am i sposed to tell him this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You give him the 'I don't want a relationship' right now line. Telling him you lied straight out is kinda going to hurt him...how about agreeing to go out with him as friends and explain that you like him a lot etc, but it wouldn't work. Something like that? Either way he's going to wonder what the hell's going on <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Hope it goes well <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think it is fair to judge this boy on his appearance you dont know him enough to ay you dont love him he may be a really nice person!
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