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First Kiss

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi again everyone,

ive neva kissed ne1 in my life and im really nervous about it. a friend has said she will 'teach' me during the parties after the GCSEs but im still really really nervous.

can anyone give me any advice on this?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    People used to tell me this before mine and trust me-its TRUE. Just let it happen and everything will come naturally! but if u want to know well here it is:
    1) close ur eyes and tilt ur hear to the right ( it doesnt really matter what direction but most pple go to the right so if u dont wanna crash heads...)
    2) start off slowly kissing her lips softly
    3) if u wanna use tongues then begin to open ur mouth more, just kinda slide ur tongue into her mouth and massage her tongue with it.
    ITS NOT HARD AT ALL!!! just make sure u dont dribble,u have fresh breath and take it slowly - dont whirl ur tongue round or anything! Hope that helps!
    p.s-in my opinion its betta to have ur first kiss with sum1 who doesnt know ur situation. U cant really get "taught" how to kiss as its a natural thing and to every person its different.It wud be better to have urs with sum1 u liked and felt for as it wud make it more special and the technique wud prob come easier to u!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there is no real way to kiss. everyone is different

    just let it happen!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you do a search you may find a lot more in depth info!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i agree, everyone kisses differently u just have to relax, let it happen and enjoy! I would say is better to do it with someone who doesn't know it is ur 1st time and who u really like, will be easier to relax then!

    xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my first time i was really worried but you may not believe it, its one of those things that comes naturally. Just dont move ure tongue too much, coz girls dont like that - well the ones i know dont anyway! but seriously just relax and enjoy!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry about it, just relax and it should come naturally, it did with me. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First kiss.. *thinks back*

    Female wise I was aparently 7, thats according to my mother who said she and my then puppy-type G/F's parents saw us after primary school once... aww.. lol, but my first proper kiss which I remember was when I was 11...

    It was with a certain young lass, down by the reseivour (my main corruption area of that period), me and a girl named Kathrine were fooling around and playing twist around (or something of that nature) and she ended up on the floor, and we decided to do the baywatch thing of lifesaving, which of course, well.. yep.. you guessed it ended up with her tongue in my mouth, me complimenting it afterwards with something along the lines of 'wow.. *cough* well' and then it continuing...

    It was nice.. has to be said, again comes natural, if you've got a willing friend to show you the ropes then 'Gawd son' lol!!
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