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Perfect Girl found - now what?!?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi guys! Yet again I'm coming back to you lot with my petty troubles!

Basically, here it is: a couple of months ago, I somehow managed to get with this girl in a club, after I'd been trying to talk to her for ages. I got her number and stuff, and we had a wicked night. Since then, we've been texting and stuff, and met up once more, but she seems to be giving really mixed signals.

I've been round to her room for a smoke, and only got a hug, and whereas I've told her what I'm thinking, she's still really cagey with me. She's said that she wants to see me, but I don't know whether she means that as just a mate or not.

What do you reckon I should do? Should I just leave it, or persevere?I was thinking about just telling her straight out that I really am going mental over her, and asking if there is ever going to be a chance of us getting together, but it doesn't strike me as the most subtle of ideas. I can't get her out of my head, and its driving me mental !

Sorry this is a bit long! Any advice much appreciated!

Cheers

Cockney Bob

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cockney Bob:
    <STRONG>I was thinking about just telling her straight out that I really am going mental over her, and asking if there is ever going to be a chance of us getting together.</STRONG>

    That could possibly scare her off but you do really need to say something to her. These things are usually easier if you've had a bit (note the word 'bit') to drink or smoke cos you'll be less self-conscious. I can't quite tell from your post whether or not she knows how you feel but if you really want to get together with her then you're just gonna have to bite the bullet.

    Good luck. xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello
    i think u shud tell her gow ub feel! u wont scare her off. if i was her id b flattered. she needs o know how u feel, and u need to know where u stand! so sort it out and tell her!!

    good luck! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you should talk to her. You don't need to get all heavy but just ask where you stand. You've got a right to know and there's no reason why she won't tell you the truth unless she's just as unsure as you are.

    Good luck <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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