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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well, after trying to keep away from her for a week and a half,(ex gf that I´ve been trying to get over) I just couldn´t take it anymore, and I gave in. I called her, and I threw myself at her feet, I told her how much I love her, and all the rest, she said she isn´t over me too, but that she can´t stand long distance, and she´s not up for it. Which I guess means she is over me, because if she loved me she´d be willing to sacrifice for a while longer, I already saved money to buy a plane ticket to go see her this summer.
Anyway, to make it brief for you guys, I pretty much threw myself at her mercy, and she just didn´t want me. I wrote her a farewell e-mail last night, and another poem. I want to keep away from her. Perhaps a larger dosage of time away from her will help me out. Pathetic... I shouldn´t be acting this way... Oh well, just needed to vent a bit, I´m in pain.
John

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Easy man! Its obviousely gonna be quite hard for you, but there ain't a whole lot you're gonna get from moping about it! I was in the same situation a while back, so I know how hard it can be, but believe me, out of sight really is out of mind! You'll soon brighten up mate - I found that the best thing to do was just think of the good times, and try and throw myself into the rest fo my life - like spending a load of time with my mates and stuff.

    Take it easy tho, man! Woman were invented to drive us mental, I think, and they do a pretty damn fine job.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cockney Bob:
    <STRONG>Take it easy tho, man! Woman were invented to drive us mental, I think, and they do a pretty damn fine job.</STRONG>

    I think that we do have a few more uses than that but for now I'll let it slide.

    I'm really sorry to hear that things havn't worked out for you mate. I don't know the whole situation but I can understand how long distance relationships can be difficult and there's no way that it would work if your other half wasn't willing to put in the mileage so to speak. It's obviously gonna be hard for you over the next few weeks and I can guarantee that you'll have some setbacks but eventually you will get over it. In the meantime try and chill out a bit, go out with your mates and stuff .... just do anything to keep your mind active and not on your ex. Plus remember that you have all the people on the Site to chat to should you find yourself with nothing to do.

    xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the replies guys. I went out all weekend, and that helped me out a bit. I´m going to El Salvador for 2 weeks tomorrow, so that´s going to help me keep her out of my mind for quite a while, I hope it works and I can get on with my life. Thanks again.
    John
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im sure things will get better. hope you are happy again. just get on with your life as difficult it may be.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hope things get better for you <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> You know not all of us are trying to drive men mental! It's just a fun bonus <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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