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Underage sex 'experts' on this site
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Am I the only one who doesn't wanna know about the sex antics of underage people on this site? There are so many people discussing sex and what they did last night and their sexual fantasies etc which is fine because this is a sex forum right? But when you click on some of these peoples profies and find out that they're only born in the very late 80's, does anyone else think............ hold on a sec........:eek2:
I ain't naming any names but they know who they are......
I ain't naming any names but they know who they are......
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Believe me there are plenty..................... and they're still in school (or just left school).
So it goes.
Mind, there's a 14-year-old in Bishop Auckland whose miscarried baby was sent home in a jar...
Sex and sexuality aren't something that suddenly kicks in at 16, just because the law says that that's the age of consent. The whole teenage years, hormones, and puberty are about sex, and the body preparing for it.
And being a sex forum on a site aimed more for teenagers and young adults, there will naturally be those who are underage asking questions, telling anecdotes, and even giving advice.
Sex isn't something that just happens, like throwing a switch, at the age of 16. And while we're on the subject, nor does is it turned off like a switch at any particular age either. That's why your parents have sex, and mabye even your grandparents still do. Sex doesn't stop at 25, or 30, or whatever. Do you have problems even accepting that.
i think its of for them to be doing a little stuff and maybe a few experiments etc but nothing like frog boy there just said
Why is it wrong for teens to have sexual fantasies?
Teens are just becoming aware of their sexuality so it's natural for them to think about sex!!
Its just that sometimes I read stuff that sounds like it came from a very experienced person, but then you click on their profile and find out that they're still in school!
Either 14/15 year olds ARE actually having sex lives similar to people much older and experienced, or they're just kidding themselves and trying to be old to quick.
Well I don't know about not wanting to know, but certainly concerned they have the experience to share.
Yes it's nice people can be opened about sex and showing it's perfectly normal, etc, etc - But damn, it bloody well scared me how many such young girls/boys have had it set in their mind that sex is a regular thing for them - I mean, at 14 yeah it's normal to have boyfriends/girlfriends but not having sex.... :no: When I was 14, a lad was lucky to even kiss me, as that was just such a big thing on it's own. Shows how innocent and niave I can be
Nah, it shows just how much things have changed in such a short period of time.
Five years ago sex didn't seem to be such a big issue, it certainly wasn't the be-all and end-all of life. There isn't a fourteen-year-old alive who doesn't think about sex, but ythe media now places the presure on them to have sex, because it builds sex up to be something all the beautiful sexy people are doing all the time, and if you buy product x then a beautiful sexy person will come and have sex with you. And if you don't want to use product x you'll never have sex, because you are spotty, frigid and ugly.
Advertising sells sex as something to be desired above all else, and advertising sells sex as something that you have to do to be considered good-looking and attractive. This is a big problem during teenage years, because all teens worry about being ugly and hated.
Pop music shows it better than anything else- ten years ago at least the lyrics were subtle, and at least the singers were adults- now we have S Club Juniors singing about how much they want to feel your love deep isnide them...
:eek:
wasnt any different when i was either (6 years ago)
it depends on what type of teenager u are i suppose...i wasnt one of the stuck up peroxide blonde/orange faced girls who had shagged everyone and their best friend
i was more interested in mucking aout with my friends and keeping myself to myself
That's what I thought.
They're fourteen for Chrissakes, if I wanted to look at near-naked kiddies I'd steal Gary Glitter's laptop.
I think the pressure has always been there, actually, so I think you're right PussyKatty. I don't know if it is getting worse or not, it's so hard to tell, because for all the kiddies who are sleeping aroubnd most of them are not.
I don't trust surveys that say kids are sleeping around more and snorting more charlie- kids wil lie to impress, even fi it is anonymous, because they don't want to look like they're a boring prude.
I do wonder about whether it is girls or boys who have more underage sex, though. Because in my experience the shy girls have sex really young, but the shy boys have sex really late.
I dunno, I think the presure is there for both genders.
It's all such a shame, really, but such is life.
thinking about it, the ratio was about 1:3 or 1:4 for teenage whores to non teenage whores
What do you class as a "teenage whore"?
yeh of course, i know but thinking back to when i was at school it was them sorts of girls, the popular ones who only cared about image who were sleeping around, and talking about blow job technique during maths
Peoploe who end up becoming prostitutes (street corner ones at least) do so because they are vulnerable- illegal immigrants and teenage runaways being the two main groups.
It's such a sad thing to happen, but there are more teen whores because a) they get more earnings because men like a bit of young and b) they are easier to control as they are so much more vulnerable than adults.
Prostitution (the business) and sex are not linked.
There aren't so many teenage escorts, it should be noted, though quite a lot of escorts are students.
gobby ones who sleep with the boys for the attention, or to feel superior
Those who talk about sex the most seemt o have it the least.
Teenagers lie to fit in.
I think me and the point didn't quite meet then:(
where does prostitution come into it
anyway, those whores from my school, all of them have at least 1 baby. who looks good now ?! haha