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Age Gaps

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
What is the age gap limit between 2 people in high school. About 5 of my mates are or have been out with quite a few 3rd year girls from school, and we are in the 5th year. I thought about it once and there was one girl that I did like, she liked me, before she saw what I looked like. (that's a thing that pisses me off, looks before personality)She wasnt that good lookin herself,it was the fact that we had a few things in common. When I got talkin to her and her mates, at first, things were alright but then I realised how childish they acted. They used to ring me a few times and I knew when they were together all they wanted to do was annoy me. What do other people think of this situation? Do most girls choose looks over personality?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you see a girl for the first time do you say "wow, look at that nice personality over there??" Everyone chooses looks initially, you have to get to know someone before you can decide on there personality. To be fair, I think men are worse offenders than women for this, I mean you see loads of really attractive women with ugly men, but not so much the other way round.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Looks are sometimes an initial attraction but appearance can be overlooked, personality can't. I like marmite. I mean that in the context of a sandwich. I don't like it anywhere near enough to eat marmite straight from the pot. I'd rather hang myself. See what I'm saying? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    *Is drunk* <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When it comes to be interested in a guy for a relationship;looks doesn't usually rank #1, but suprise-neither does personality!
    Attraction which is usually sexual attraction over rides most things initually.although there are the undeniablly goog lookers out there,we aren't always sexually attracted to them. and unfotunately a guy may have the best personality ever-so why aren't we falling for him?
    Because this is nature's way- not mans.
    I have had good looking men with great personalities who I have turned down for not so good looking men who where completed asses. Why? Because the electricity was there.
    When a girl says you're great but she just wants to be friends ,she means she wants it to be there. She means there is no reason why she shouldn't want you.But she doesn't. 'IT', just isn't there for her.Chemistry is the kicker.Sometimes unfortunatly so.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like marmite. I mean that in the context of a sandwich. I don't like it anywhere near enough to eat marmite straight from the pot. I'd rather hang myself. See what I'm saying <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    PMSL - Very true tho <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex girlfriend is a few years older than me and it was a great relationship. I don't think age is really an issue if your mind is the same with the other one.

    Yeah many people think age gap only happen with older men and younger women but it could be the other way round!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, there is 7 years between me and my boyfriend, he is 21 at the moment, and 22 at the end of this month, and i am 15!! and we have been together a year, and we love each other like crazy.

    Nicola xxxxxx
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