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Am i 2nd best?? tell me wot u think.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have just got off the fone with my bf and i am very pissed off and not 2 mention upset. On sat i was meant 2 b babysitting with him for his sis, but he says 2 me "babe can u not cum and can my m8 cum instead as he is getting sum hash". Now obviously i get upset about this and he says no i am not putting my drugs b4 u, but i feel he is. Now today i finished work early and he said he was going 2 cum round and see me. (He said that @ lunch time) So i foned him up and said "Wen r u cumin round? i have just bought a pizza for us etc etc" and he replies "Oh babe i am wating 4 my m8 2 bring round my hash" and then he said basically lets leave it. I said "Cant u cum round wen u have got it" he says "Oh but babe i wanna have a smoke of it." So basically i wanted 2 c him, he didnt wanna c me. I put effort in and got us sumthing nice 2 eat. He would rather smoke up. He says i am not 2nd best 2 hash! But i feel soooooo 2nd best and it hurts so much that he would rather smoke up then be with me. SO WOT DO U THINK? AM I 2ND BEST? i feel the only time he wants me is 4 sex. It hurts soo much as i love him so much, i dont no wot 2 do!!? <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yep, he sounds like a tosser, dont let him get away with treating you like that, or he`ll keep doing it. dump the loser
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds like you are.why couldn't you and his mate babysit? surely theres no harm in 1 extra person being there.
    you need to stand up to him and tell him straight.tell him how you feel and what your going to do if he doesn't sort things out.
    if nothing changes then your obviously better off without him but if it does then at least he's putting the effort in and he really does care about you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Think u already know the answer. Dump him, he'd rather date his hash than you.
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