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Bumping into ex. what to do????

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My mates wedding is soon, i will be there all day,( reserve ushure) i have known bride and groom a long time , the problem is my ex ( after long time mates and lovers 8 years) has been invited to the evening,( messy split xmas and new year, im still single but fine with that, if she does show up with the bloke she cheated with me on( does that sound right) should I


A : ignore ( fuck off bitch)

B : politely ignore

c : polite

D : super polite thanks for asking

ps.. i was totaly gutted thought she was the one nearly did the ring thing myself


any ideas
what would like or hate??? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd go for C [polite].
    This won't make you look bitter or unattracive to other females at the wedding. Also she is more likely to see what she is missing.
    Good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "I'll have an A please Bob"
    Don't know the ins and outs but that sounds a harsh X-mas and no one wants that!
    Just do your best to have a nice day and try not to think about her.
    sounds hard!! dont know if i could do it good look mate. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you'd asked me yesterday midway through a severe attack of PMS (heh heh) I'd have said A. But I reckon you should politely ignore her. Only answer if spoken to first. And let her know what she's missing! (In some obscure way.)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd go with B. Personally I wouldn't bother making the first move to make conversation but if she spoke to me then i'd be polite & answer any questions etc but nothing more.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Definately C - polite. Make her think that you have got her totally out of your system, as this will really bug her. We all like to think that there's one person we have a hold over. Can I suggest that you take someone totally georgous with you? Or if not make sure at every opportunity you are talking to lucious ladies. This is bound to wind her up. Sounds like your well rid , if she cheated on you, she'll cheat on him.
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